Dr. Amy Barmeier Dru passed away on December 3, 2021 at her home in Paradise Valley after a courageous and lengthy battle with lymphoma. She is survived by her two sons, Christo and Alex, and by her two grandchildren, Harry and Isla. Amy was born on April 25, 1951 and raised in Youngstown, Ohio by her parents Carlyn and Harry Barmeier. She had two younger siblings, Harry and Judy. Amy graduated from Denison University and obtained a doctorate in Psychology from Western Michigan University. While completing her Ph.D in Michigan, she met Stanley Dru, a self-made, successful real estate developer. They wed a few years later and settled in Phoenix, Arizona, where Amy spent her time managing commercial real estate properties and raising her two sons. Amy was a woman driven by her passions in life. She loved both freshwater and saltwater fly fishing. Some of her favorite fishing memories were catching salmon in Alaska followed by dining on freshly steamed crab at the pier and sitting on the dock at Cheeca Lodge catching snapper and small sharks. She also loved to tap dance and took classes at the local community college. She practiced her dancing in the living room of her home on the wood floor because the sound was excellent. The floor became so scuffed and tarnished that she had to put a rug over it, the energy of her ‘step ball change’ etched in the floor forever. But her greatest passion in life was horseback riding. She rode from an early age and competed throughout the Midwest. She continued this love through college and graduate school, traveling back to Ohio to ride on weekends. As an adult, she won national championships and cherished the time she spent at the barn and at the Del Mar Fairgrounds. She and her mother both rode horses, and this shared bond created a lifetime of memories. She always stressed the importance of finding things to be passionate about, and in many ways, her passions truly defined her as a person.
Instead of a funeral, Amy wanted her ashes to be scattered in Islamorada in the Florida Keys. She always remarked that there was nothing more beautiful than the aqua-blue waters just off the coast on the Atlantic side, and she will be laid to rest and reunite with her parents, family, and friends in these idyllic waters. Condolences may be expressed at www.whitneymurphyfuneralhome.com.
Katy Fielder
Dear Christo,
I remember your mom fondly from when you were in my 2nd grade class. She would often stand in the doorway in the morning as she dropped you off, and the two of us would chat for a bit. I remember her as pleasant, warm, and approachable. I am sorry for your loss. Peace and comfort to you and Alex.
Katy Fielder
Steve Zabilski
Amy was a wonderful neighbor and good friend when she lived next to my family in Phoenix (Arcadia) for many years. I would see her almost daily while she was walking her dogs or manicuring her beautiful front lawn. Amy was a very kind supporter of St. Vincent de Paul and regularly inquired how we were doing and how she could help. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends.
Lisa Daitoku
Amy was one of the most tenacious and wise women I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Her wit and sarcasm made me laugh every time we saw each other. Her love of the ballet and animals was always endearing. I will be watching the spring Baryshnikov in her honor. Rest my friend.
Tim Floor
I had the pleasure of getting to know Amy over several decades. I appreciated her straight-shooting personality and her macro view on the world and her financial sharpness. Her love and support for her children was immeasurable. Amy will be missed!
Dan Colton
Christo and Alex
You Mom was a person I will always remember for her desire to live and quick wit.
Thinking of all of you.
Dan colton
Jamie Wise Lanier
Judy, I am so very sorry to hear about Amy. I always admired her. I remember our youth with great fondness. May you be comforted with happy memories of Amy.
Jamie Wise Lanier
Kristina Floor
Christo & Alex
Sending you both condolences and well wishes during this period of transition due to losing both of your parents in a very short time period. Each of them were special i n their own rights and I am sure they have provided you both with a host of memories to keep them close to your hearts as well as to have a good laugh once in a while.
Chuck Smith
Christo & Alex,
I will never forget your Mom for her very Quick Wit and her love for Laughter. We originally met in Grand Rapids shooting a game of billiards and I later introduced her to your Father Stan. Steve Nicolas and I would laugh so much when we heard the Amy stories told by Stan and Visa Versa. She loved you both immensely and was very proud of your medical achievements. Stan would always say I have the doctors now in the family to keep a good eye on me. Amy would always be very passionate about her interests in life being horseback riding, fishing, ballet, tap dancing and managing real estate. Remember the times when you had fun and good hearty laughter.