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FRAKES, MICHAEL D. & CECILIA A.

June 2, 2015 230 Condolences

FRAKES,

Michael Donald Frakes was born on November 6, 1942 in Webster City, Iowa.  On September 14, 1943, Cecilia Olivia Arriaga was born in Tucson, Arizona.  Mike moved to Tucson, Arizona in 1954, where they met at St. Peter and Paul Elementary School.  They dated thru grade school and high school, and on April 27, 1963, Mike and Cissy married in Tucson, where they had four boys.  They moved to Phoenix in 1977 to raise their family. Mike was an integral part of the banking and title industries in Phoenix and Scottsdale; committed to St. Theresa Parish and the Brophy Community (twice being President of the Dads’ Club); active in numerous Scottsdale organizations and charities such as the Boys Club of Scottsdale, the Scottsdale Head Honchos, and the Scottsdale Chamber of Commerce; as well as a champion of numerous golf tournaments at Arizona Country Club. Cissy dedicated her life to educating children.  She considered it her ministry.  She was an incredible mother of four, the neighborhood piano teacher, the parish and school music teacher, a principal of Catholic elementary schools, and the Assistant Superintendent of Catholic Education for the Diocese of Phoenix. The couple treasured family and life to the fullest extent until a tragic car accident on May 31st, 2015.  The accident resulted in Mike and Cissy passing away together.  They are survived by their four sons and their wives—Tim and Liz, Tony and Cindy, Ken and Stacy, and Brian and Christie; their nine grandchildren—Tim Jr., Mark, A.J., Michael, Lily, Mack, Kennedy, Cooper and Charlie.  They are also survived by Cissy’s sister, Adriana “Babe” Higuera, and her family, Ron and Andrea; Mike’s sisters’ families—Pat Verwiel and Joe Verwiel and Kathy and Tom Neukom—and their children; and his late brother Bob’s family, Anne Frakes and their children, Denise, Dianne and Duane. They were great parents and wonderfully loving grandparents.  They touched many lives with their unconditional love, and their impact can be felt throughout many families.  Most importantly, they are enduring examples of a committed marriage, not only to each other, but to their family and God.  They will be dearly missed. The Visitation will take place from 5:00 – 6:00 PM with a Scripture Service at 6:00 PM on Friday, June 5th, 2015 at St. Theresa Catholic Church, 5045 E. Thomas Road, Phoenix, AZ. Their Funeral Mass will be held on Saturday, June 6th, 2015 at 10:00 AM at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, 4715 N. Central Avenue, Phoenix, AZ. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in their memory to either Brophy College Preparatory’ s Loyola Academy (contact Brophy’s Office of Faith and Justice at (602) 264-5291 ext. 6519, ofj@brophyprep.org) or The Catholic Community Foundation (www.ccfphx.org).  Arrangements entrusted to Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home.

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  1. Liz Isam

    June 2, 2015 at 2:12 pm

    My thoughts and prayers go out to each of the family members of Mike and Cissy Frakes. God Bless you all.

  2. Jim Buckley

    June 2, 2015 at 3:06 pm

    Prayers to the Frakes family from the Buckley family .

  3. Christ Child Society of Phoenix

    June 2, 2015 at 3:32 pm

    Our condolences and prayers are with the Frakes family. Even though Cissy was with us only a short time, we loved her and will remember her enthusiasm to help needy children. She will be missed greatly by the members of the Christ Child Society. The entire Frakes family are in our prayers and thoughts.

  4. Christ Child Society

    June 2, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    The Christ Child Society of Phoenix offers their sympathy and prayers for the entire Frakes family. Even though Cissy was a member for only a short time, her enthusiasm to help needy children was obvious and inspiring. She will be greatly missed!

  5. David Jazo

    June 2, 2015 at 3:37 pm

    I was blessed to have been able to call them my neighbors and friends. God bless you all!

  6. Joe Binsfeld

    June 2, 2015 at 3:46 pm

    Such a tragic loss. Great memories’ of all the family gatherings and the new years eve parties. From the Binsfeld family to yours. May good bless your family, we are so sorry for your loss.

  7. Jay Binsfeld

    June 2, 2015 at 3:52 pm

    God Bless you Siss and Mike. Mat you rest with Him.
    Jay

  8. Monty and Gregory Montgomery

    June 2, 2015 at 4:05 pm

    We’ve known Mike and Cissy for 4+ years through ACC and both were great people with big hearts. Always smiling and laughing, especially Cissy. Mike showed me the ropes of the Schlosser Group…who to trust, who is easily rattled. He and I would always playfully banter over our “little” college rivalry. I will cherish and miss those simple moments. I will certainly miss him calling him “Mr. Frakes” every time I would see him!! I’m confident both are playing Augusta with my father and I’m sure Mike is still swiping away those darn gimme putts with Cissy smiling on.

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the you!!

    Matt and Gregory Montgomery

  9. Bernie Kida

    June 2, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    This loss is felt here in Atlanta, Georgia. We were heart broken to hear the news. Mike and Cissy always left company and places better off than when they found them. We will have fond memories of them both and cherish the support and love they have provided our family. We are richer because of them. Peace to the family in this difficult time.

  10. Erich Reichenberger

    June 2, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    My condolences to the Frakes family for this tragic loss. We at Pioneer all have a very heavy heart with the passing of our friend. We have very fond memories of Mike and can all remember the great things he had to say about Cissy and his family (kids and grandchildren).

  11. Donna Camacho

    June 2, 2015 at 4:11 pm

    I will always remember Mike for his laughter and generosity. We worked together for a couple of years before he retired. He loved Cake. He would always ask me to bake him a cake on Fridays and could never get enough. We know that life is so Fragile. Please hug your loved ones and let them know how important they are to you. May God grant Mikes family Peace and may they treasure the memories.

  12. Dick and Dabney Buckley

    June 2, 2015 at 4:22 pm

    Our prayers are with you Frakes boys and families. Such a tragic loss. May they rest in peace.

  13. Bob and Martha Wagoner

    June 2, 2015 at 4:24 pm

    The passing of Mike and Cissy is a huge loss for us all. They were one of the nicest couples on the planet and we loved to play golf together at Arizona Country Club. The “Circle of Love” was big -it applied to the how big the “gimme” circle around the pin was, but for Mike and Cissy it was evident in the way they lived their lives, by loving their family, friends and community. Our hearts are heavy with sadness. We extend our blessings to the family.

  14. Art & Lynne Powell

    June 2, 2015 at 4:25 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers to the Frakes Family. We are so sorry for your loss and the void which will be felt. I will miss the times we had talked about getting together this summer for golf and conversation and will forever remember Mike’s energy and quick wit. Mike and Sissy will be missed by the many whose lives they touched. God bless the Frakes Family.

  15. Marc Archer

    June 2, 2015 at 4:27 pm

    Our friendly banter on the golf course will be missed. You have been a joy to know God bless you both on your new journey.

  16. Abby Boley

    June 2, 2015 at 4:28 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear of Mike and Cissy’s sudden passing. I never met Cissy, but Mike was my co-worker at Pioneer Title. He was so good to all of us and we loved having him around the office. He sure bragged about his kids and grandkids a lot and was so proud of them all. 🙂 They were the lights of his life. My prayers are with the Frakes Family during this difficult time. God bless.

  17. Roy & Pat Heidemann

    June 2, 2015 at 4:46 pm

    Very sorry for your loss. Our deepest condolences go out to the entire family.

  18. John Binsfeld

    June 2, 2015 at 4:55 pm

    Our love, thoughts and prayers to the entire family. Such and incredible loss to be felt and shared by so many. May you be graced with peace and comfort in the days to come.

  19. Wynn and Marian Paoletti

    June 2, 2015 at 4:57 pm

    We will never forget all those wonderful Friday nights watching Brophy football with your mom and dad. They were great friends and we always had so much fun with them. We are so sorry for your loss. We know that you have hundreds of wonderful memories of them. Bless all of you and may those wonderful memories give you joy.

  20. David Saenz

    June 2, 2015 at 5:11 pm

    Rest in Peace my friends. May your family find peace . What a terrible loss.

  21. Alexander & Teresa Malkoon

    June 2, 2015 at 6:48 pm

    Oh the love of all, for those who’s lives stand heavenly tall,
    Lives that touched the depth and breadth of God’s eternal call,
    Cherished memories and friendships and blessings shared,
    What these lives have given us is eternally and earthly cared.

    Our heartfelt condolences,

    Alexander & Teresa

  22. Barb Hann

    June 2, 2015 at 7:13 pm

    I am so sorry for your very tragic loss! I have no words of comfort to help with your pain.
    im so very sorry!

  23. Kevin healy

    June 2, 2015 at 7:30 pm

    They will be missed. We feel blessed to have spent our short time on God’s earth getting to know them both. Our sincere condolences.

  24. Becky Morris

    June 2, 2015 at 7:37 pm

    My prayers are with the family of Mike and Cissy. Mike was my boss for a few years. I enjoyed working for him. I am sad for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort through this very hard time.

  25. Celeste and Randy Tang

    June 2, 2015 at 7:38 pm

    We are so very sorry for your loss. Our hearts go out to the entire Frakes family.

  26. GEORGEANNE TESI (GEORGIE)

    June 2, 2015 at 7:43 pm

    Dear Beautiful Family
    My heart is heavy with sadness for all of you. We cannot comprehend such tragedy in life , we can only try to understand the beautiful life that God has given to us to share and nurture in our time together. Love and faith
    will sustain you. My two beautiful childhood friends are gone but the memories will always surface and truly make me laugh. It was that kind of a friendship and we had such good times together.
    . I wish all of you love and prayers to give you strength at this difficult time.
    Goodbye my dear friends, rest in peace with God.

    Georgie and family

  27. The Hall Family

    June 2, 2015 at 7:48 pm

    Our prayers are with your family during this time. We offer our condolences for this great loss.
    Love,
    The Halls- Brian. Ann. Chandler, Elizabeth and Grant.

  28. Wally and Suzie Douglas

    June 2, 2015 at 8:16 pm

    Tony, Cindy and AJ,

    There are many people who feel your sorrow…..may you find comfort in the love and caring around you.

    Wally and Suzie

  29. Gerrie Bradley

    June 2, 2015 at 8:37 pm

    My very deepest sympathy to all the family of Mike and Cissy. I remember them well from SS. Peter and Paul School in Tucson where they had their sons enrolled. They were so dedicated to the school and did so much, none of us will ever forget that. I also remember spending an evening with them in Las Vages, beautiful memories of this very special couple. It was such a privilege to know them. Their children and grandchildren are in my prayers at this very sad time. May God bless each and every one of you and give you strength.

  30. Sam & Cheryl Nocifera

    June 2, 2015 at 8:52 pm

    Mike & Ceci, Together in this life and together in the next life. You left behind a beautiful family and
    many, many friends…you both will be dearly missed. You will live on in each of your children and grandchilden.. Love, Sam & Cheryl

  31. Moira Carney

    June 2, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    My heartfelt sympathy and prayers for the Frakes. Such tragedy. We extend our hands and hearts in grief the for passing of your grandparents Tim and Mark, and your father and father in law Tim and Liz. I’m so sorry not to be able to attend the funeral as I’m out of town. You are all in my prayers.

  32. Jane & Stephen Maurer

    June 2, 2015 at 9:16 pm

    Our condolences & prayers to the Frakes family.
    Blessings to all of you.
    Jane & Stephen Maurer

  33. Krissy Buckley-Tvedt

    June 2, 2015 at 9:53 pm

    So terribly sorry for your loss. Mike and Cissy were an amazing couple and impacted many lives. Prayers for the entire Frakes family.

  34. Kristin and Sam Hardwig

    June 2, 2015 at 10:23 pm

    Our hearts and prayers are with all of you during this tragic loss. You are such a special family. So much love to you.

  35. Pete & June Dziawura

    June 2, 2015 at 10:32 pm

    Ours prayers go out to the Frakes family. Such a terrible lose! Our children were Blessed to have Cissy as their teacher at St.Thomas the Apostle.
    Rest in Peace ♡
    The Dziawura family

  36. Jeannine Brennan

    June 2, 2015 at 10:33 pm

    My sympathy goes out to the Frakes family. They were wonderful neighbors; and it is clear from their story that they were incredible people. My wish is that the family will find comfort in their memories – and be inspired by the lives they led.
    May you find peace during this difficult time.
    Sincerely,
    Jeannine Brennan

  37. Mike Scarbrough

    June 2, 2015 at 10:38 pm

    Thoughts and prayers to the Frakes family.

  38. Rhapsody Canepa

    June 2, 2015 at 10:46 pm

    The thoughts and prayers of the Canepa family are with Frakes family at this time. I was blessed to work with Cissy for some years through the school board at St. Vincent de Paul elementary school and saw them both often when we were parishioners at St. Theresa with them. They were both such kind people and I will always remember Cissy’s warm smile and love of education and children. May God give the family comfort during this difficult time.
    With our deepest sympathy,
    Rhapsody (Rios), Nick and Ezekiel Canepa

  39. Tim and Tracy Spooner

    June 2, 2015 at 10:47 pm

    Our hearts go out to the Frakes family for this sudden and tragic loss. Great people gone too soon.
    May God be with during this difficult time.
    Peace
    Tim and Tracy

  40. Jim Tucker

    June 2, 2015 at 11:08 pm

    Tim, Tony and Ken our family is praying for all of yours. Your mom and dad were a fantastic couple. A model of love and caring for each other and their family. Their grace lives on with your families.

  41. Charlene Krushinsky

    June 2, 2015 at 11:09 pm

    Our hearts and prayers are with the Frakes family…may God bring you peace and comfort during this difficult time. Cissy was a great mentor to me and because of her, I took a leap of faith and became a Catholic school principal. Three years later, I thank God every day for having the best job in the world. Cissy, you changed my life by believing in me and for reminding me that with God all things are possible. I will miss you dearly….may you and Mike rest in eternal peace with our Lord.

    Charlene, Kelsey, Kaitlyn, and Jessica Krushinsky

  42. Donna Elias

    June 2, 2015 at 11:10 pm

    we were truly heartbroken when we received the news about Mike and Cissy . Art and I have so many wonderful memories of Cissy and Mike alomg with their family over many years. Our love goes to.all their son’s and their family. May God give you peace with assurance that they are now with Him in Heaven. Again, we love you all, as God also loves us. Art and Donna Elias

  43. Craig & Colleen Esslinger

    June 2, 2015 at 11:24 pm

    Sending love and prayers to the entire Frakes family. Infinite love is timless and genuine.,..Godn’s Speed to Mike and Cissy

  44. Kari Denk

    June 3, 2015 at 2:28 am

    Words can’t express the sorrow…
    Thinking of the Frakes family during this devastating time.

  45. Tracy Elias

    June 3, 2015 at 3:23 am

    My deepest condolences to the entire family. Mike and Cissy were loved by all amd will be greatly missed. My prayers are with each one of you.

    Love always,
    Tracy Elias

  46. Jame and Katy Rogers

    June 3, 2015 at 3:35 am

    Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Mike and Cissy were so very dear to us, taking us in as family during our time in Phoenix. We are deeply saddened by their loss. May you all find comfort in knowing that their lives well lived are now being rewarded by a forever in heaven. We love you all!

    Jame, Katy, Keenan, and Sam Rogers

  47. Dex and Karen Sidney

    June 3, 2015 at 3:37 am

    We cherish fond memories of Mike and Cissy, and we send our love and heartfelt condolences to the boys and their families, and to Pat and Kathryn in the loss of their dear brother. God bless you all. Cousin Dex and Karen

  48. Anya and Roy Roychoudhury

    June 3, 2015 at 3:56 am

    Brian, Christie, and the Frakes family –
    We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Brian, your mom and dad have so much to be proud of and a beautiful family to remember and celebrate them. Such a tragedy to lose them – we are so sorry.
    Thinking of you all,
    Anya & Roy

  49. Paul and Donna Binsfeld

    June 3, 2015 at 5:24 am

    Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. Your family has been a big part of our family for many years. The loss of Mike and Cissy will be felt by many. May God bless your entire family at this difficult time.

    Paul, Donna, Jacqueline and PJ Binsfeld

  50. Art Bourque

    June 3, 2015 at 5:41 am

    Dear Frakes Family:

    Our thoughts are with you. Having met your Dad only a few brief times, it was clear — from his friendly smile to welcome handshake — that he was a good man who raised good men. Our thoughts are with your parents and your family.

    Art and Sarah Jane Bourque

  51. Jan and Travis Hair

    June 3, 2015 at 6:19 am

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of Cissy and Mike. These two wonderful people will be missed by all.

  52. Luisa Lukaszewski

    June 3, 2015 at 6:21 am

    I was a part of Cissy’s OLPH family. She was my principal, my colleague and a wonderful friend. May Cissy and Mike rest in the arms of Our Lord and may their family find comfort. Amen.

  53. Dave and Laura Cheatham

    June 3, 2015 at 6:21 am

    Our hearts and prayers go out to your family! So sorry for your loss!

  54. Christy Walker

    June 3, 2015 at 6:31 am

    Duane:
    I am so sorry to hear of this tragic loss. I will pray for your entire family during this difficult time! All the condolences speak of an amazing couple who made an irreplaceable impact on so many lives! May God bless and comfort you all.

  55. Sister Patricia Mary Wilson, SC

    June 3, 2015 at 6:41 am

    Together in LIFE–from childhood to Eternity–it was love at first sight–and it NEVER wavered. I have fond memories of my year with Mike and Cecilia.

    Their Eighth Grade Teacher at SSPP,

    Patricia Mary Wilson, SC

  56. Paula Koeck

    June 3, 2015 at 6:47 am

    Sending love and prayers to the whole family !

  57. Sue McKone

    June 3, 2015 at 6:50 am

    God bless your ENTIRE family. They lived a full and unselfish life together and went to the Lord together. You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sue, Kelly, tommy, Kelsey, and Molly McKone.

  58. Louise Rivas

    June 3, 2015 at 6:54 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow.

  59. Pete & June Dziawura

    June 3, 2015 at 7:02 am

    Our prayers are with the Frakes family. Such a terrible loss! Our children were Blessed to have Cissy as their teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle. Rest in Peace!

    The Dziawura Family

  60. Douglas Beischel

    June 3, 2015 at 7:04 am

    Heartfelt condolences to the Frakes family. Your parents will be missed by so many. Pain and sorrow are temporary, love will endure.

  61. Courtney Buckwalter

    June 3, 2015 at 7:07 am

    They were such wonderful grandparents, and members of the community! So incredibly sad we lost two wonderful souls! I am sorry I cannot be in Arizona during this time – my thoughts and prayers for your family. Love you guys!

  62. Yvonne von Maass-Scaramella

    June 3, 2015 at 7:07 am

    I remember having Cissy (Mrs. Frakes) as our music teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle, she was such a beautiful, kind and patient teacher. She will be missed.
    My thoughts and prayers for the family.
    I’m so sorry for their loss.

  63. Heidi Nikodemus

    June 3, 2015 at 7:11 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends for this tragic loss. Beautiful people, family and values. Thank you for the words you shared about them – very inspirational.
    I am so sorry for your loss.

  64. Greg and Marti Hancock

    June 3, 2015 at 7:12 am

    Our prayers are with the Frakes family in this time of sadness. Please know are thoughts are with you regarding your wonderful parents. They were both truly loved by all.

  65. Steve Adelson

    June 3, 2015 at 7:27 am

    We offer our deepest condolences to the entire family. Their mark on the entire community will live on through their amazing family and extensive contributions to the Valley and Arizona as whole.

  66. Peggy Sandahl

    June 3, 2015 at 7:29 am

    Dear Frakes Family, I love you mom and dad and had many fond memories with activities at Saint Theresa School. I loved working with your mom on school issues and we shared many thoughts. My prayers and thoughts are with all of the kids and grandkids. God Bless, Peg Sandahl

  67. Bob and Annette Dunlap

    June 3, 2015 at 7:31 am

    Dear Tim, Liz and the entire Frakes family,
    We are so, so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, we cannot be there for the service, but our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
    Love,
    Bob and Annette Dunlap

  68. Raul ,Bridget,Kristina,Eric Chavez

    June 3, 2015 at 7:42 am

    Our Heartfelt Condolences to the family and may the Lord bless your souls.
    your are going to be missed. we love you.

  69. Paul & Francesca Russo

    June 3, 2015 at 7:42 am

    Our prayers and condolences are with the Frakes Family. We are so sorry for your tragic loss. God Bless you all.
    The Russo Family

  70. Brian bradley

    June 3, 2015 at 7:43 am

    Who am i going to complain about the government with on the range now? Such a great guy. I always judge men by how they treat their wives and how proud they are of their family. Mike scored 100 in both categories. He will be missed

  71. Liz, Nikki and Br Robert

    June 3, 2015 at 8:01 am

    May their souls rest in peace. We are praying for all of you. God bless!

  72. Kerri DeWaters

    June 3, 2015 at 8:06 am

    Our thoughts and prayers to your family through this very difficult time.
    Colby and Kerri DeWaters

  73. The Meltz Family

    June 3, 2015 at 8:15 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Frakes Family.

  74. Stephanie Erickson

    June 3, 2015 at 8:18 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

  75. Joyce and Don Hahnenkratt

    June 3, 2015 at 8:19 am

    Condolences and prayers to all the Frakes, especially Tony, Cindy and AJ.
    Don and Joyce , parents of Karen Halter and Tom

  76. Brett & Norma Upper

    June 3, 2015 at 8:22 am

    On behalf of Norma and I, along with the entire staff of Arizona CC. Or condolences go to the family, Mike and Cissy where an integral part of our daily lives at the golf operation. They will be truly missed. God Bless.

    ACC Golf Staff

  77. Maggie Jivery

    June 3, 2015 at 8:30 am

    My deepest sympathies to the family of Mike and Cissy Frakes. May you find comfort and peace in the wonderful memories of your parents and the knowledge that they are now in the arms of Jesus. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time.

    Maggie and Ray Jivery

  78. Carey Potter

    June 3, 2015 at 8:36 am

    Our heartfelt condolences to the entire Frakes family. Mike and Cissy were two of the nicest people around, they will be missed by so many.
    Much love and hugs to the family,
    Dick and Carey Potter

  79. Marlene and Gene Shapiro

    June 3, 2015 at 8:43 am

    Our condolences and prayers to the Frakes family . We are thinking ot you during this difficult time. Mike and Cissy were wonderful people, outstanding parents and great friends They will be missed by all. Marlene and Gene Shapiro

  80. Brian Murphy

    June 3, 2015 at 8:43 am

    The entire Murphy family is sending thoughts and prayers to a wonderful family. So many great memories of a wonderful couple. We are so sorry for your loss.

    Brian, Jen, Emma, Lauryn and Aiden Murphy

  81. Lori Peterson

    June 3, 2015 at 8:51 am

    I am heart broken over this tragic accident. May the Frakes Family find peace and strength through this difficult time.
    God Bless.

    Lori Peterson

  82. Colleen (Aust) Clancey

    June 3, 2015 at 8:53 am

    Growing up as neighbors on the golf course your parents felt like family. Some of my favorite memories of them were when we’d stop by on Christmas Eve for some laughs and Cissy’s famous tamales… Such amazing people, and beautiful family. They will be missed.
    Love,
    Colleen

  83. Carol and Doug Davy

    June 3, 2015 at 9:06 am

    Mike and Cissy have blessed so many people with their faith and kindness. We will be praying that your family finds comfort in your memories of your parents and in the knowledge that others are missing them too. May the angels surround you with love, Carol and Doug Davy.

  84. Laurie Hughes Murphy

    June 3, 2015 at 9:21 am

    My thoughts and prayers go out to all the Frakes during this difficult time. Your parents were very special and touched many lives over the years.
    May peace and healing be with you all.

    Sincerely,
    Laurels

  85. The Schwarzkopf Family

    June 3, 2015 at 9:27 am

    It’s with a heavy heart that we send our prayers to you all. Such tragic news for such a wonderful family.
    God Bless,
    Marty, Connie, Chad and Luke

  86. Jan Martin

    June 3, 2015 at 9:32 am

    I am so sorry for the tragic loss by the Frakes family. While I didn’t know Mr. and Mrs. Frakes, I have worked with Tim for a long time and more recently with Brian. If Tim and Brian are reflections of their parents, their parents must have been wonderfully exceptional people. I will keep you and your family in my heart and prayers.

  87. Desi Speh

    June 3, 2015 at 9:37 am

    Our family has Mike, Cissy and the entire Frakes family in our thoughts and prayers.

  88. PATRICIA (Patty)VERWIEL

    June 3, 2015 at 9:40 am

    My thoughts, condolences and prayers are with you all.

  89. Brian & Michele Hinz

    June 3, 2015 at 9:46 am

    Our entire family sends our prayers and thoughts. They were wonderful people who raised a wonderful family. Our deepest condolences go out to their families and everyone they touched.

  90. Maria M.

    June 3, 2015 at 9:51 am

    My condolences to the Frakes family.

  91. Bill and Louise Aust

    June 3, 2015 at 9:57 am

    It is difficult to find the words to express the profound loss we feel. Cissy and Mike meant so much to our family…neighbors, friends, role models for our children, and mentors to us as parents on how to do it right.

    Our hearts go out to all of the Frakes family, may God watch over you during this most difficult time.

    Love,

    The Aust Family

  92. Betty Caldwell

    June 3, 2015 at 10:02 am

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family of these nice people.

  93. Gena McGowan

    June 3, 2015 at 10:06 am

    St, Matthew Catholic School fondly remembers Mrs. Frakes for her encouragement of its present dual-language model as well as for her monthly visits last years as a “Book Buddy” with the Christ Child Society. We shall miss her love and her enthusiasm for innovation and her love for the poor.

    Mrs. G. McGowan, Principal

  94. Paul V. Brodt

    June 3, 2015 at 10:16 am

    Sincerely, very sorry to hear about the passing of your parents. I knew your father through the Phoenix Banking Community and the Arizona C. C./ He will be missed as well as your mother../ Paul

  95. Justin speier

    June 3, 2015 at 10:18 am

    I am so sorry to hear this tragic news. My heart goes out to the whole family. Growing up with the Frakes family and attending St. Theresa and Brophy with ken are very fond memories for me. Their parents always had so much love for everyone and myself. They will be missed by everyone. They had such a great influence on so many people. Huge loss for the phoenix community also. They did so much good. They lived out Gods calling to the letter. “Loving God and neighbor”. God bless the Frakes!!!

  96. Lisa Pruitt

    June 3, 2015 at 10:20 am

    We are so sorry for your enormous loss. Our hearts go out to your entire family.

  97. Christina Strafaci

    June 3, 2015 at 10:32 am

    Please accept my sincerest condolences and prayers!

  98. marianne burton

    June 3, 2015 at 10:33 am

    Mike and Cissy, two people we ALWAYS were happy to see and spend time with!
    We send our heartfelt condolences to the entire family.
    Lee and Marianne Burton

  99. MaryStephens

    June 3, 2015 at 10:34 am

    Your mother was an incredible gift to our children. My condolences for the loss of your Mother and Father. I pray they have found the Peace and the Glory of God’s Grace.

  100. Alison Mead

    June 3, 2015 at 10:41 am

    My condolences and prayers are with the Frakes family. I worked with Cissy for several years through the Diocese of Phoenix planning the Education Days for diocesan teachers. She was a great organizer and leader for our staff development group. Her smile and enthusiasm were contagious. She will be greatly missed, as will Mike. I am so sorry for your loss.

  101. Andy and Kelly Ingram

    June 3, 2015 at 10:43 am

    Our family sends prayers for comfort and peace. Our sincere condolences are with you all.

    God bless,
    Andy, Kelly, Meg and Will Ingram

  102. Gary Fortney

    June 3, 2015 at 10:44 am

    As part oft the Arizona Department of Education Title I office, we are thankful for years of service Ms. Frakes provided to those eligible students receiving services. Our thoughts and prayers go to the family.

  103. Wolfgang Neudorfer

    June 3, 2015 at 10:45 am

    Mike: I am so saddened to hear that you have left us. I was looking forward to laughing and cutting up with you at our next reunion. May you and Cecilia rest in God’s eternal love and peace. Your old SJMA buddy, Wolf

  104. scott & Tracy Smith

    June 3, 2015 at 10:48 am

    Our thoughts & prayers go out to the entire Frakes family, be strong during this difficult period in your lives

  105. Chuck and Marie Heimerdinger

    June 3, 2015 at 10:49 am

    We came to know the Frakes after moving into the home they raised their family in, and being members of AZCC. Our deepest sympathy and prayers to the family. May you find comfort in knowing they are always with you.

  106. James & Liberty Ponte

    June 3, 2015 at 10:54 am

    On behalf of our entire family I would like to send our heartfelt condolences, thoughts & prayers. Our families have known each other for multiple generations; starting with Mike & my father, through which I became friends with Brian and most recently Ken coaching my sons football team. This tragic loss not only for the Frakes family but also four the entire Phoenix community which this loving family touched with their warm & geneous hearts. Mike & Cissy will be missed dearly however, their commitment to family, friends, community and most importantly their kindred spirit will live-on thru their beautiful children & grandchildren. With love and prayers, Liberty and James Ponte & the entire Ponte family

    We are so sorry to miss the services as our family is currently out of the country.

  107. Jim Valenzuela

    June 3, 2015 at 10:55 am

    Our deepest and sincere condolences to the entire Frakes family. May God rest their souls.

    God Bless You All.
    Jim, Debbie, Diego, Christina, Bella and Helena Valenzuela

  108. Michael Pylman

    June 3, 2015 at 11:05 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Frakes Family.

    Michael Pylman family

  109. Deacon Jeffrey Arner

    June 3, 2015 at 11:07 am

    My prayers are with you and all those who are effected by the loss of such a beautiful couple. May God’s loving arms embrace you and hold you close as He welcomes Michael and Cecilia home.

  110. carolyn killeen scott tacconelli

    June 3, 2015 at 11:16 am

    Mike and Cissy were the favorite parents at Xavier Brophy. Every time i saw them..they were full of joy and happiness, and they both always had a genuine smile. They were parents who truly lived for their beautiful family. May God bless them and their entire family during this very difficult time

  111. Katy and John Regester

    June 3, 2015 at 11:19 am

    On behalf of the Toney and Regester families, may God bless the Frakes family at this time of sudden loss. May God give you his healing grace. May he bless the souls of your parents.
    Katy and John Regester

  112. Ron and Mary Muir

    June 3, 2015 at 11:20 am

    We were traveling on our way to Vermont when we heard this terrible news. We were so privileged to know Mike and Cissy when they moved across the street about 10 years ago. We had many great chats on our neighborhood island about golf, Cardinal and UA football, kids and grandkids. How proud they were of theirs and how happy they were when the family was expected for holiday meals. Cissy was our HOA president, and we would never let her step down. Yesterday we offered our Mass for Mike and Cissy at the cathedral in Santa Fe. We will continue to offer prayers for them and for their wonderful family.

  113. Lori Schinker

    June 3, 2015 at 11:28 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Frakes family.

    God Bless ,

    Lori and Louie

  114. Bob and Maria Palko

    June 3, 2015 at 11:29 am

    My wife Maria and I met Mike and Sissy through the relationship our children Erica and Rob had their children Brian and Kenny. It was such a shock to hear of their passing. We knew them as such quality parents and people. How fine their children have become is a direct reflection of the parents. The world needs more people like the Fraked. Our deepest condolences!

  115. Terry Ormsbee

    June 3, 2015 at 11:56 am

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. Your Mom and Dad were wonderful people, It is a loss for all of us and saddens me deeply.
    Sincerely,
    Terry Ormsbee

  116. Scott and Jaie J. Tenney

    June 3, 2015 at 11:59 am

    We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this terrible tragedy.

  117. Don and Cyndi Durkee

    June 3, 2015 at 12:04 pm

    Our heartfelt condolences go out to the Frakes family. You are very much in our thoughts and prayers.
    God Bless you and yours, Don & Cyndi Durkee

  118. FR JOHN EBBESMIER

    June 3, 2015 at 12:19 pm

    KIDS:

    WORDS WILL NOT EXPRESS THE LOSS OF YOUR PARNETS – AND THE WONDEFUL
    IMPACT HEY HAD ON MANY PEOPLE – CISSY WAS A GREAT PERSPON – AND EDUCATOR
    AND HER GIFTS TO OLPH AND THE DIOCESEW HAS HELPED DEEPEN ALL OF OUR
    MINISTRIES – IT WAS GODS GIFT TO ME – IN A SPECIAL WAY – AND MIKES SENSE OF
    HUMOR AND HIS COMMITMENT TO YOUR FAMIOLY – WAS A GIFT TO US ALL –
    MAY GOD WHO BEGAN THE GOOD WORK IN EACH OF THEM – NOW BRING IT TO
    COMPLETION IN THE DAY OF CHRIST JESUS.

    FR JOHN.

  119. Van Tucker and Family

    June 3, 2015 at 12:30 pm

    I could not believe my ears when I got the call from Tony on Monday morning. Its just unbelievable knowing that I will only hear their laughs or feel their hugs with the memories they left. I’ve blessed to have been part of their lives and invited into their home many times growing up. Mr. & Mrs. Frakes never missed a chance to say hello or offer a hug to my wife and kids after church. We will NEVER forget them and I will look forward to being with them again one day in Paradise. God peace to all the Frakes. We are so very sorry for your loss.

  120. Lucia Marusiak and Sons

    June 3, 2015 at 12:42 pm

    Our deepest condolences to the families of Mike and Sissy. Pillars of the community, at ACC and St Theresa, they will be deeply missed. May you find solace in their beautiful memory.

  121. Gary and Mary Hickel

    June 3, 2015 at 12:48 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you boys, your wives and children. It’s just so tragic to have Mom, Dad, and the grandparents to the grandkids taken so suddenly. We have known your parents for many years at Arizona CC and, for me, I have known your Dad in banking since the late 1970’s; most recently, have played bingo with them at White Mountain CC. Your Mom was our girls favorite teacher at St. Thomas. They will be sorely missed here; but will watch over the families from heaven.
    Mary & Gary Hickel

  122. Jonathan Read and Lee Heath

    June 3, 2015 at 12:56 pm

    Our condolances to the family. We loved our times with them both, and will miss them as part of the family at ACC. They have gone together to a better place to be sure.

  123. Marie Axman

    June 3, 2015 at 1:09 pm

    It is written that “For Your faithful…life is changed not taken away.” May God rest the souls of Cissy and Mike.
    Cissy was such a great mentor and friend to me. We all morn her passing but she will always be in my heart as I carry out my work as a Catholic School principal.

  124. Laura Whitehead

    June 3, 2015 at 1:22 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I have great memories from Mrs. Frakes teaching music at St. Theresas. Ken and I grew up together our parents were always at each others parties. To put into words the magnitude of this loss is impossible.
    My deepest condolences,
    Laura Whitehead

  125. Martha Fogler

    June 3, 2015 at 1:33 pm

    We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers for God’s grace and comfort are with your families at this time.
    Sincerely, The Fogler family, Martha, Dave, Emma, Kate and Will

  126. David Buchanan

    June 3, 2015 at 1:39 pm

    I am stunned and at a loss for words. I have known Mike for 45 to 50 years. and I really liked him. He was a neat guy and funny. I pray for his family in their great loss. This is a loss for all of us.
    David Buchanan

  127. Martha Fogler

    June 3, 2015 at 2:03 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May God comfort you during this difficult time.
    Sincerely,
    Martha, Dave, Emma, Kate and Will Fogler

  128. Tim & Tracy Oliver

    June 3, 2015 at 2:06 pm

    Dear Frakes Children,
    We are profoundly saddened by this news. We just met your parents last summer, and were looking forward to getting to know them better. They were such a fun, loving couple. Our deepest sympathies to you & your children.

    God Bless,
    The Oliver Family

  129. Katie and Adrian Evarkiou

    June 3, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Frakes family during this most difficult time. Mr. and Mrs. Frakes were simply wonderful people. Love to you all!

  130. Carter and Christina Wilcoxson

    June 3, 2015 at 2:40 pm

    It is with deep sorrow and a heavy heart that we send our condolences. Though, we never had the opportunity to play golf with either of them while at ACC, we have close friends that truly couldn’t say enough about their spirit and happiness for each other and the sharing of a great game that golf offered each of them. We would like to express our deepest sympathies for the loved ones left behind and pray for them to have comfort in knowing just how wonderful Mike and Cissy filled their own lives.

    Thoughts and Prayers,

    Carter and Christina Wilcoxson

  131. Sr. Ignacia Carrillo, FMA

    June 3, 2015 at 2:46 pm

    Dear Tim, Tony, Ken, and Brian
    I am sorry to hear the loss of your parents. I knew and worked with Cissy when I was stationed in Arizona for seven years. As a new principal at the time, I was grateful to her for her help and guidance. She made everything seem possible.
    There are no words that can express what I would like to say. I know that the Lord in His great mercy will grant you the strength and courage you need at this time. Please know that we are praying for each of you and your families. We are with you at this time.

    Sr. Ignacia Carrillo, FMA
    Salesian Sisters of the Western Province
    San Antonio, Texas

  132. Ward Hickey

    June 3, 2015 at 2:57 pm

    Heartfelt condolences to the entire Frakes family. We pray for your family during this time. Your Mother and Father were terrific people.

    Ward, Debbie, Chip and Erika Hickey

  133. Frank & Maria DeVenuto

    June 3, 2015 at 2:58 pm

    I met the Frakes in a unconventional way, you see I am an avid Arizona Cardinal fan even though I grew up in Chicago. I have had season tickets for almost 20 years now. I sat 3 rows behind Mike for years in the new stadium. I would often taunt him because he had a whole row of seats and everyone had FRAKES on their jerseys. I explained that some day I would have a row of seats for my family with our name on the back DEVO. After several years I would always refer to him as DADDY FRAKES. I would always tell my wife Maria about them and our running joke, but I never said the name on ther jerseys. One day about 5 years ago I did and Maria said she had gone to school with the Frakes. Then I told that to DADDY FRAKES and he asked where I lived, because he had lived in the neighborhhod forever. Turns out he lived a couple block away from me. From that point on whenever he drove by the house he would always stop and we would talk Cards Football. We texted before, during and after most games along with a few others that sit in our section. I was going to tell him that my this season my whole family were going to attend the games with me. The joke had run full circle and I would have my wife and all 4 of my kids at the game along with him and his family this season.
    I will miss DADDY FRAKES. I just wanted to share that with you all and let the family know we are thinking of them and praying for them.

  134. Vince & Sue Watson

    June 3, 2015 at 2:59 pm

    Words cannot adequately express our sorrow and feeling of loss upon hearing the news of their passingl, Cissy and Mike were wonderful partners, parents, grandparents and friends. To lose both of them is almost unbearable to those of us who loved and respected them. Our sincere and deep sympathy go out to the Frakes boys, spouses and grandchildren. The world lost two very bright lights. They will live on in our memory as great examples of living out your faith, and giving back to this world.

  135. Carole Rigg

    June 3, 2015 at 3:16 pm

    My condolences and prayers for all of you. Cissy was a wonderful colleague here at St. Thomas, and my children benefitted from her musical talent and Social Studies expertise as their teacher. May God comfort you.

  136. Stephanie Macias

    June 3, 2015 at 3:22 pm

    Ken, Stacy, Mack, Kennedy and Frakes Family,
    We are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all.
    Stephanie, Megan, Matthew, and Belgi Macias

  137. Gail and Michael Curry

    June 3, 2015 at 3:27 pm

    I don’t know how to put into words how terribly sad we are over the loss of Cissy and Mike. Their passing has left a tremendous void in this world. They were so blessed to have spent almost their entire lives together and build such a beautiful family. Thank God you have each other to draw strength and comfort from. We were fortunate to have had the opportunity to call them friends and have many wonderful memories to hold on to. They touched so many lives. May your memories bring you peace. Our prayers and hearts go out to you all.

  138. Larry & Cindy Staab

    June 3, 2015 at 3:32 pm

    Dear Tim, Tony, Ken, Brian & Families,

    I very sorry to hear of the loss of Mike and Cecelia. I’m going to miss them. There are not enough superlatives in my vocabulary to describe them. You are the ultimate family and what a wonderful relationship Mike and Cecelia had that started in elementary school and carried on for the rest of their lives. Mike and I met in high school in Kansas and we’ve been able to continue our relationship throughout our lives. Always a smile and enjoyable times together. My best to all of you and you are in our prayers.

    Larry & Cindy

  139. Cynthia Kotfila

    June 3, 2015 at 3:35 pm

    Tim,
    I am so sorry for your unbelievable loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this most difficult and heartbreaking time. May they both rest with God now.
    My condolences.

  140. Paul and Shirley Davis and Family

    June 3, 2015 at 3:38 pm

    MAY THEIR MEMORY BE ETERNAL!

    Cissy is now singing with the angels in Heaven!

  141. Saint Thomas the Apostle School

    June 3, 2015 at 3:39 pm

    As a former educator and interim administrator in our school, Cissy’s depth of experience and love of the children was always appreciated. She will be missed by our entire Saint Thomas the Apostle Family.

  142. Cathy, Greg, Nicole, and Scott Nugent

    June 3, 2015 at 3:46 pm

    We were so fortunate to have been friends/ neighbors of the Frakes. We have fond memories of Christmas parties, Cissy’s tamales, her giftedness at the piano, and all of us trying to sing along. I delighted at watching the boys grow up by standing at our kitchen window. They were a happy, busy, faithful, and giving couple who raised a strong, loving family. They will be dearly missed by many but always remembered.
    Our heartfelt condolences to you and your families.
    Cathy, Greg, Nicole, and Scott Nugent

  143. The Douglas Family

    June 3, 2015 at 4:10 pm

    We are deeply saddened by the news of the deaths of Cissy and Mike. They were both such a wonderful presence at St. Francis Xavier School. Our thoughts and daily prayers go out to their children, grandchildren, family and friends who are dealing with such great sorrow. May God Bless you all during this time and may you be comforted by the many memories you share with each other.

    Peace,
    Ron, Michele, Aidan, Kerrigan and Makenna Douglas

  144. Melinda Melia

    June 3, 2015 at 4:14 pm

    Cissy Frakes will be certainly be missed! She is part of the reason the schools in the Diocese of Phoenix maintain a level of high quality. She was serious about great education. My prayers to the family.

  145. Roumiana and Charles Jepson

    June 3, 2015 at 4:15 pm

    We will miss you, Mike and Cissy! Sunday golf will never be the same.
    Thank you for the laughs, wisdom, generosity and joy you brought in our lives.
    We offer our sincerest condolences to the family.
    Roumiana and Charles Jepson

  146. Bud & Pat Rivas

    June 3, 2015 at 4:30 pm

    Tony, Cindy & AJ

    Please now we are thinking of you and you will be in our prayers. Very shocked and hope to talk to you when you come to town.

    Buddy, Pat, Lorenzo & Jeff

  147. Sandra Martino

    June 3, 2015 at 4:39 pm

    My deepest sympathy to the Frakes family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  148. Mike & Jane Polachek

    June 3, 2015 at 4:42 pm

    The entire Polachek families has our hearts and prayers out to all of the Frakes families now and forever. Stay strong and always remember your folks, grandparents for all the joy they brought to you.

  149. John "CookE" & Bev Fross

    June 3, 2015 at 4:44 pm

    GOD BLESS…

  150. Bridget & Dan Peacock

    June 3, 2015 at 4:50 pm

    Tony, Cindy & AJ -We are so deeply saddened by the loss of your parents. We have such fond and vivid memories of them at so many of your neighborhood parties. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

    The Peacock Family

  151. Bob Cherry

    June 3, 2015 at 5:01 pm

    To the Frakes family and children
    I knew Mike my entire business life and he was that man you were always happy to see. I mourn your loss and share your grief.

  152. Schubert Family

    June 3, 2015 at 5:29 pm

    You are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Thought you may like this poem

    Letting Go
    You’re still here in my heart and mind,
    still making me laugh cause your stories live on.
    I hold you in a thought and I can feel you.
    I feel you and this gives me strength and courage.
    The tears I have cried for you could flood the earth
    and I know you have wiped each one away.
    For you Mom & Dad, I promise you this,
    I will go on with my life and make you proud. I will always hold you in my heart.
    I promise you I will be missing you everyday till the end of time,
    but this is not my end and I can’t hold my head underwater….I need to breathe.
    I need to love and miss you, but I also need to live because through me you will live,
    you will still laugh and love,
    you will still sing and dance,
    you will still hug and kiss.
    You will forever be in our lives,
    you will forever be a Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister. Aunt, Uncle, Grandparent, Friend, Neighbor
    I am going to miss your shining face
    I think of you and wonder why?
    I might cry or smile,
    but at the end of the day I am one day closer to you….

    by Shannon Billeter

    Source: http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/poem/death-of-brother-car-crash-letting-go#ixzz3c33LzFN2
    Family Friend Poems

  153. Kevin and Shelly McCarthy and family

    June 3, 2015 at 5:31 pm

    May God give your family strength and peace during this difficult time. You have the prayers of a very large Catholic family here in the Diocese of Phoenix.

  154. Don and Margaret Dyekman

    June 3, 2015 at 6:01 pm

    We are so saddened that your parents and grandparents were taken so early. Our hearts go out to your entire family for your loss. We hope you will find comfort in the memories, teachings, and unconditional love that they gave you every day of their lives.

  155. Mike and Debbie Corso

    June 3, 2015 at 6:20 pm

    Our prayers are with the entire Frakes family in your time of grief. God Bless your family.

  156. Kent Roberts

    June 3, 2015 at 6:47 pm

    Cissy, a good friend and colleague, you and Mike will be truly missed.

  157. Steve J. Hatch

    June 3, 2015 at 6:47 pm

    Brian,

    I have no adequate words to express my sadness for the depth of your loss…so I will share a verse from A.M. Overton:

    “For by and by the mist will lift
    And plain it all He’ll make,
    Through all the way, tho’ dark to me,
    He maketh not one mistake.”

    Steve

  158. Kortni Kleinman

    June 3, 2015 at 6:50 pm

    This community is a far better place because of them. They will be greatly missed…

  159. Steven Ortiz

    June 3, 2015 at 7:56 pm

    I am so saddened on the passing of Mr. and Mrs. Frakes. You will be dearly missed. Thought and prayers sent to all the Frakes families.

    Steven Ortiz

  160. Maureen O'Connell

    June 3, 2015 at 8:01 pm

    I met Mike and Cissy a few years ago and was so impressed with them as Beautiful human beings. So loving and faith Full. I know they were looking forward to their retirement and more special times with their family and friends. I am so sorry to all of you who have lost your parents, grandparents, friends and confidants. God’s Peace be with you all,

    Sincerely, Maureen O’Connell
    DOPCCM – Catholic Cemeteries.

  161. Charlene Atkinson

    June 3, 2015 at 8:14 pm

    I only knew your mom through my work at Bourgade Catholic. What a gracious, God loving, woman. I will keep your family in my prayers.

  162. Rick and Lisa Behrens

    June 3, 2015 at 8:17 pm

    Please know your family has our deepest condolences and prayers. Rick and Lisa Behrens

  163. Jerry Lanphear

    June 3, 2015 at 9:21 pm

    So sad to her of this tragic loss. Cissy shaped many young minds and our community was strengthened in her presence. God bless you and you loving husband.

  164. Marguerite Valenzuela Brown

    June 3, 2015 at 9:24 pm

    We will keep you all in our prayers.. May your strength and faith carry you through this most difficult time.
    Marguerite Valenzuela Brown
    Julie Valenzuela

  165. Iannitti Family (Mike, Maryann, Anthony & Austin)

    June 3, 2015 at 9:34 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. There are no words to ease your sorrow but the memories and love you share will carry you forward.

  166. Mimi Condon

    June 3, 2015 at 9:42 pm

    I am so very sorry for your loss. Cissy was a beautiful lady who liked to keep us on our toes : ) yet she was real, not afraid to share what she knew as how it would help the needs of our school. I remember her excitement regarding retirement so that she could spend more time as a Grandmother and it was heart warming to hear her speak so proudly of her family. Your family is in my prayers.

  167. Saint Agnes Catholic School

    June 3, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    The teachers, staff, students, and families of St. Agnes Catholic School are praying for the souls of Cissy and Mike as well as the Frakes family. Cissy was a great leader and mentor and will be missed. May you find peace and comfort in this time of sadness.

  168. The Campbell Family

    June 3, 2015 at 9:54 pm

    Our hearts go out to the entire Frakes family. Please know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers.
    Our deepest condolences,
    Megan and Chris Campbell

  169. Juanita Baker

    June 3, 2015 at 10:27 pm

    Our fondest memories of Mike and Cissy go back many years with our families, but in recent years we have celebrated birthdays, anniversaries and Christmas with ” The Catholic Group” (the name Mike gave us).. Our next birthday dinner will include 2 empty chairs with 2 red roses in remembrance of our dear friends. With sincere sympathy , Johnnie & Irene Smith, Ed & Ethel Walsh, Ken & Margaret Toney, Lou Ferrara and Juanita Baker

  170. Bill Marcotte

    June 3, 2015 at 10:31 pm

    Tim and entire Frakes Family: I have wonderful memories of your father many, many years ago at ACC! An amazing man with a very generous heart! I loved working with your mother on special projects at the Diocese of Phoenix. She was always encouraging, full of enthusiasm, energy, joy and love! A wonderful example of a holy woman of God! I’m shocked and saddened by this news! You and your family(ies) are in my family’s prayers during this very difficult time.

  171. ANGELA COX

    June 4, 2015 at 2:37 am

    You couldn’t have found nicer people,may they soar with angels 0=) Prayers and condolences to their family

  172. Susan and Richard Kosinski

    June 4, 2015 at 4:39 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you all! God Bless.

  173. Aurora McKinney

    June 4, 2015 at 4:46 am

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family on this difficult time.

  174. GEORGE VESELY

    June 4, 2015 at 5:55 am

    Tim, please accept my and Jane’s deep felt condolence’s. We are very sorry to hear of your loss.

  175. John, Jeanette, Trevor, and Trent Szafran

    June 4, 2015 at 6:06 am

    Tim, Liz and the entire Frakes family our thoughts and many prayers go out to you during this time of incredible loss! God has his arms wrapped around your parents and they are in a beautiful place! Xoxo

  176. Steve and Margie Kerr

    June 4, 2015 at 7:33 am

    We are deeply saddened by the loss of Mike and Cissy. They are dear friends, and will be missed very much. May all your wonderful memories, bring you peace and comfort, today, and and everyday! You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Steve and Margie Kerr

  177. Macias Family

    June 4, 2015 at 8:11 am

    Tim, Tony, Ken, & Brian,

    Our heartfelt condolences go out to you. When I was in high school with Tim, your parents were #1 on the most engaging parents list. So much so, that hanging around your house and seeing them interact with you guys and your friends, they were definitely the parents I most wanted to be like when I grew up. Now that Carrie and I have three teenage boys of our own, their role modeling is still in the forefront of my mind when our house is crawling with kids. Tragically they may be gone, but their impact and memory will live for many, many years.

    Steve, Carrie, Jack, Cole, & Alex Macias

  178. Jonathan and Meredith Hahn

    June 4, 2015 at 8:46 am

    We are deeply saddened by the loss of Mike and Cissy. We were fortunate enough to have met them last year at a new members night at White Mountain CC and they were both such kind and lovely people. Our deepest sympathies to all of their family. May God be with all of you.

  179. Jennifer (Geis) Sherman

    June 4, 2015 at 9:09 am

    I am deeply sorry for your loss. My heart, thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Jennifer (Geis) Sherman

  180. Reed Day

    June 4, 2015 at 9:25 am

    My deepest condolences go out to the Frakes family. Everyone at Arizona Country Club is so very sad to hear this tragic news. Mike was always so kind to me and is meeting his maker with a beautiful set of teeth! He and Cissy will be sadly missed. Cheri and i plan to attend the funeral.

  181. Justin Maze

    June 4, 2015 at 10:01 am

    Very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

  182. St. John Bosco Catholic School

    June 4, 2015 at 10:52 am

    Our faculty, staff and community were so blessed to know and have worked with Cissy. She was an amazing mentor and inspiration to us. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time. May they rest in peace.

  183. Carbine Family

    June 4, 2015 at 11:43 am

    We are so sadden to hear of the Frakes loss. Cissy was the principal at OLPH Glendale and St Thomas the Apostle grade school where our children attended. Our deepest condolences go out to your entire family. May you all find His peace as you all morn your loss and His strength and grace as you begin to rebuild.
    Much Peace a Love
    The Carbine’s

  184. Marcelline Cruzen

    June 4, 2015 at 11:55 am

    It is indeed sad, sad, news. My deepest sympathy and prayers to you, Pat, and to the whole family. Love, Pudy

  185. Eduard Goodman

    June 4, 2015 at 12:02 pm

    Words cannot express my deepest sympathies for such a tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Frakes family in this time of sorrow.

  186. Kimberly Lewis

    June 4, 2015 at 12:11 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you…

  187. Rydzewski Family Bernie Joe Jen Judy Jacque

    June 4, 2015 at 12:18 pm

    So sorry to hear your parents passing away. We were ACC members on the swim team and traveled to different meets. Do you remember when we lost our car keys in the dumpster after we ate at roadside rest area?? everyone turned their car headlites on for the search?? We had many laughs on our meets..Mike & Cissy were a wonderful model for parents and they will be missed. God keep you all in His hands..

  188. Rachel & Woody Collins

    June 4, 2015 at 1:22 pm

    Our love and prayers are with the Frakes family. Our children attended and still attend Catholic schools and we so appreciate all Cissy did for education. We now have two angels in heaven.
    Woody, Rachel, Katherine, Shirin & Jacob Collins.

  189. Lou Ferrara

    June 4, 2015 at 2:15 pm

    I will always miss Michael and Cissy. two of the most beautiful people in my life.May
    the Lord console all of you during these most difficult times.

    Love and prayers:
    Lou Ferrara and Karen & Stephen

  190. Walt Seng

    June 4, 2015 at 2:24 pm

    I met Mike as a high school classmate in Hays, Kansas. Recently I moved to Phoenix where Mike, Larry (Staab), and I would often meet for lunch. Mike was part of the classmate group e-mail team through which we (about a dozen or so) would air our political opinions, share stories (good and bad), and generally carry on as the buddies we were in high school. I believe Mike and Cecilia just reminded us, especially at our age, never to postpone a meeting with family and friends. Mike and Cecilia made the world a better place simply by being here. We miss you.

  191. Julia and Steve Zastrow

    June 4, 2015 at 2:29 pm

    To the Frakes Family,

    You all are the most wonderful legacy any mother and father could ever hope to leave behind. The Zastrows love being in your lives, and we are so very sorry for your loss.

    Our prayers are with you.

  192. Lou Ferrara

    June 4, 2015 at 2:36 pm

    My thoughts and prayers to all family members. Mike and Cissy will never be forgotten by me. I have so many beautiful memories of them…….I wish you God’s love during this time.

    Love and Prayers
    Lou Ferrara & Karen & Stephen

  193. Darrell Mudd

    June 4, 2015 at 3:31 pm

    I send my deepest condolences to the Mike & Cissy Frakes family.
    Mike and I go back to a most unique of high schools located on the western Kansas plains. Loaded with regimentation, it was an all-boys-catholic-military-boarding school. Yes, regimented was the word…The class of 61′ reunited back on our 50th reunion and we have stayed in close contact since then and Mike always had the best of Spring Baseball seats, I mean right behind the dugout when we came visiting for some warm valley weather.
    As a fledgling author, I am, I have used the following quote over and over in my published books. I think it is very appropriate for two wonderful individuals I was fortunate to call my friends.
    To Cissy & Mike.
    “Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our memories. Some people move our souls to dance, awaken us to a new understanding with the passing whisper of their wisdom and with their smile make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon. They stay in our lives forever, take our breath away and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never ever the same.
    Mike & Cissy, keep the door open to heaven.
    DSMudd

  194. Maria Lopez

    June 4, 2015 at 4:06 pm

    Dear Frakes Family, I worked with Mrs. Frakes at OLPH and met Mr. Frakes at school events. There are not enough words to tell you how sorry I am. You have my deepest condolences. What can I say about your mom that you don’t already know. She was one of a kind and I deeply admired and respected her, thus she was always “Mrs. Frakes” to me. Please know that all who loved your mom and dad are wrapping you in our prayers and our thoughts for consolation and strength. God bless you!

  195. Mr. and Mrs. Frank Whitehead

    June 4, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    No words for your family’s loss. Truly great people. We wish you all our love and prayers. Frank and Jenna Whitehead.

  196. Susan Quinif Roney

    June 4, 2015 at 4:29 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! Please know you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.

  197. Cherelle Paoletti

    June 4, 2015 at 8:05 pm

    I’m deeply sadden by the passing of Cissy & Mike. I will never forget the fantastic Christmas Eve parties they hosted w/ the best homemade tamales in town. My thoughts & prayers are with the entire Frakes Family.

  198. The Chavira Family

    June 4, 2015 at 10:38 pm

    Dear Frakes Family–
    You are in our continued thoughts and prayers. Your parents were amazing and you are a witness to their incredible love and commitment. Please know you are surrounded by prayers and love.

    May the peace of Christ comfort you,
    The Chavira Family

  199. Debbie and Jim Marsh

    June 5, 2015 at 8:38 am

    Mike and Cissy were very special people to all of us. They will be truly missed by all their friends who they touched each day. We cannot imagine the heaviness of heart that their children and grandchildren are experiencing. We continue to pray for them and trust that God will sustain them. Thanks Mike and Cissy for always being welcoming and kind.
    Debbie & Jim

  200. Jean Carlson

    June 5, 2015 at 11:43 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Mrs. Frakes was a talented teacher, taught my siblings, and myself as well. Her beautiful voice will be missed. Mr. And Mrs. Frakes will continue on in our memories and hearts.

    God bless,
    The Carlson Family, Jenny Carlson, Jean Carlson, and John Carlson

  201. The Gasowski Family

    June 5, 2015 at 12:33 pm

    On behalf of our entire family we extend to you our deepest sympathies upon hearing the tragic news of the death of Mike and Cissy. We are so sorry . We knew Mike and Cissy from when Joe and John attended St. Theresa’s with Cissy as the best music teacher ever. and then as our boys went on to Brophy. They will be missed by so many people .

    Joe and Jan Gasowski
    John and Paige Gasowski and family
    Joe and Iveta Gasowski and family

  202. Caparella Family

    June 5, 2015 at 1:26 pm

    Mike and Sissy will be sorely missed. Both of families benefited each others support through the years in many ways, holidays, education, events, family situations and just simply growing up together. Our support, prayers and thoughts go to all including Tim, Tony, Ken and Brian.

  203. Dan Ehmann

    June 5, 2015 at 2:48 pm

    Tony, Cindy and AJ,
    So so sorry for your loss, please know that your family has so many extended friends who care and want to help in any way possible to take away some of your heartache. I wish there was a pill or a magic wand but maybe the only saving grace here is that they both left together and will remain together to look down upon you and your family and continue to watch over you… God Bless
    Dan Ehmann

  204. The Wesley Family

    June 5, 2015 at 3:01 pm

    Our whole family feels so very privileged to have known your mom and dad. They were such amazing people and it seemed like there was love and kindness in everything they touched. Our prayers are with you as you carry this heavy sadness and loss.

    Love to you all,

    The Wesley Family,
    Bob, Julie, Bobby, Tim and Kennedy

  205. Bob and Margaret Flaherty

    June 5, 2015 at 3:54 pm

    We are so shocked and saddened by the loss of Mike and Cissy, and our hearts go out to their entire family. They were both such great, inspirational, and fun people, who were loved and respected by all who knew them.
    Mike was a friend and a father figure to me, and words cannot express how much I will miss him.

  206. Jo and Nick Markette

    June 5, 2015 at 4:26 pm

    With much sympathy, we offer our condolences. The Catholic community has lost two strong role models.
    May God rest their souls,
    Jo & Nick

  207. Karen Dorsett

    June 5, 2015 at 4:58 pm

    Frakes Family: Wishing you comfort in the loss of your parents. Where there is sadness, love plants a garden of memories. Cissy was a wonderful person and will be missed.

  208. Dave and Pam Wilder

    June 5, 2015 at 6:47 pm

    Our deepest condolences for your tragic loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

  209. Pam Stetka

    June 5, 2015 at 7:23 pm

    Dear Frakes Family,

    I was principal at one of the Catholic schools for 7 years and your mother was a wonderful mentor to me. We connected over shopping and lunch in Prescott at one of the principal retreats and continued that tradition of meeting for lunch or breakfast over the years. Even after I moved on to a new position outside of the Catholic school system we continued to meet and I would hear the wonderful stories of her sons and the grandkids. What a kind, beautiful, intelligent, encouraging woman! I will always treasure all that I learned from her as well as her love of children and education. I will remember her glowing smile and spirited laugh. May you all be comforted at this difficult time and know that as time passes I will continue to keep you in my prayers.

  210. Olson/Jacob family

    June 5, 2015 at 8:24 pm

    To all the Frakes family,

    We have been blessed crossing paths with many of you and your parents at St. Francis school, Brophy and at the diocese.
    Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this difficult time.

    Paul, Kim and Morgan

  211. Bruce and Catherine Wyman

    June 5, 2015 at 8:56 pm

    Our prayers and condolences are offered for the beautiful family of Mike and Cissy. These two remarkable individuals made the world a better place, especially the community of Catholic Schools of the Diocese of Phoenix. I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work with Cissy. I will miss her very much. peace and blessings, The Wyman Family

  212. Ron Rivas & Family

    June 5, 2015 at 9:33 pm

    My condolences, so sorry for your loss.
    Ron Rivas Family

  213. Thomas Mansfield

    June 5, 2015 at 9:38 pm

    Dear Frakes Family.
    We traveled with Mike and Cicy in France on our trip with Xavier College Prep This last Easter. We had never met them before and it was like we were best friends. We so enjoyed them. We will miss them and we pray for them and for all your family. We are heartily sorry that we could not make it tonight to the Visitation. We are taking care of grandchildren as well as other complications. We so loved traveling with your mom and dad. God Bless them and God Bless you all.
    Tom and Chris Mansfield

  214. Elda Elias

    June 6, 2015 at 7:45 am

    my heart is forever broken. words are so inadequate – only great sadness, tears and tr
    reasure memories- I wish i could be with

  215. Gracemarie Torzala

    June 6, 2015 at 7:48 am

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Frakes family. May you feel God’s loving comfort from those who love you. God Bless your family.

  216. Elda Elias

    June 6, 2015 at 8:09 am

    my heart is broken for the rest of my life at this great tragedy, Words are so inadequate for this great horrific tragedy, Only great sadness , tears and treasured memories. I so wish I could be with you tpdau.
    We were going to get together in October and enjoy retirement. My great love to all the family and prayers
    –My love and prayers to all the family and all of us who mourn this great loss in our lives
    Love alwys and forever to you and your\
    ]

    ]

    my heart will is so very broken – Words are so inadequate -only great sadness,,tears and treasured thoughts
    I wish I could be there with you- CISSY and i were getting together this fall to celebrate retirement and the futre.-
    my love to all the family and I so wish I could be with you – Love always and prayers- Above all friendship that time con,y maed stronger
    Elda

  217. Rev. John Slobig

    June 6, 2015 at 8:50 am

    To the Sons of Mike and Cissy and their families:
    Sorry that I cannot be at the funeral today, but know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you grieve for your Dad and Mom. As I offer Mass tomorrow, I will pray for them in a special way.
    May the Lord welcome them into paradise where they will have fullness of peace and joy.
    God Bless!
    Fr. John Slobig

  218. Bovaird Family

    June 6, 2015 at 12:52 pm

    Dear Frakes Family,

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. We came to know Mrs. Frakes ad Mr. Frakes through OLPH-Glendale School and Church Community. She welcomed us into this community as only she can. She was a strong role model to our family. She lived her Catholic Faith and embraced family and education.

    Mrs. Frakes had a beautiful energy about her that inspired many and she lit up with joy when she spoke of her sons and her grandchildren.

    May our prayers serve as comfort to you,

    Suzanne, Kevin, Peter and Gabrielle Bovaird

  219. Mary L. Holden

    June 6, 2015 at 1:12 pm

    Sending love and sympathy to this entire family. Heaven has two new angels.

  220. Lynda and Dick Coffelt

    June 6, 2015 at 7:05 pm

    They are still together after all these years,

    a great loss to all. very moving ceremony

  221. Barbara Vasiloff and the DWP Consultants

    June 6, 2015 at 7:29 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with the Frakes family at this very sad time. Cissy was always supportive of any program that helped students. We enjoyed meeting with her each Summer. May God’s love and peace comfort you now and in the days to come.

  222. David Lisandrelli

    June 6, 2015 at 8:11 pm

    Our heart felt prayers and thoughts to your Family . God Bless Michael and Cecila, Rest In Peace

    David and Laurie

  223. Eric and Kerry Linthicum

    June 6, 2015 at 8:11 pm

    So very sorry for your loss. Thoughts, hearts and prayers with you all.

  224. Judy Nelson

    June 7, 2015 at 12:28 pm

    Shocked & heartbroken to hear of this tragedy.
    I had the distinct pleasure of getting to know Cissy during my time on the Diocesan School Board. She and Mike graciously opened their home for gatherings on numerous occasions for our group.
    They were inspiring individually and as a couple. They achieved what so many aspire to do…..they raised a lovely, close-knit family that loved each other & cherished time together. Prayers to the family – your parents provided you with a perfect example of how a loving household is created & sustained.
    Judy Nelson

  225. The DeMarco Family

    June 7, 2015 at 1:13 pm

    Our deepest condolences for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Craig, Kris, Chaz and AJ

  226. Kirk Johnson Family

    June 7, 2015 at 9:07 pm

    I will miss the banter across the lockers at ACC, Mike. You and Cecelia were always warm and engaging and givers to your community, club and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

  227. Bob and Sheila Tellier

    June 8, 2015 at 2:46 am

    Our last words with Mike and Cissy were,” we are golfing on Sunday in Pinetop”…..We had GREAT Sunday afternoon golf!

    There are no words to express the missing of these really neat people……

    Bob and Sheila

  228. Deacon Joseph Stickney

    June 17, 2015 at 2:15 pm

    I just got access to the internet, and was shocked to learn the news. I am in Arequipa, Peru with 27 Brophy students. I offer a novena for your family at this time.
    Blessings,
    Deacon Joseph Stickney

  229. The Grady Family

    June 20, 2015 at 9:21 am

    God Bless the entire Frakes family. We will miss Mike and Cissy. kind thoughts and good memories will remain in our hearts.

  230. Nicole Gales O'Connell- The Gales Family

    June 26, 2015 at 10:22 am

    My family was very lucky to have “Mrs. Frakes” as a teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle. One of my brothers commented that she was the only teacher who could balance out dealing with 8th graders in a way where you respected her so much. Your family is in our prayers.

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