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Posted By Whitney & Murphy On March 22, 2021 @ 10:35 am In Obituary | 4 Comments



Tom Graham passed away unexpectedly on March 6th, 2021, in Scottsdale, Arizona. He was born in Phoenix, Arizona, on April 5, 1962 to Betsy and Bill Graham. Tom attended Madison Simis Elementary School, Brophy College Preparatory (Class of 1980), and The University of Arizona (Class of 1984). After graduation, he worked with his father, Bill, in real estate. He then went on to work for various companies in project management. He received tremendous support from his friends that became family at Crossroads. His biggest joy in life was his son Tyler who he was so proud of. He is preceded in death by his parents Betsy and Bill as well as his brother Scot (Michael Bonfiglio). He is survived by his son Tyler and Tyler’s wife Katie. In addition, he leaves behind Tyler’s mother Cathy Seneff (Bill), his brother John (Kathleen), niece Annie (Shetha), and nephews Justin (Mary), and Will.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to Crossroads in Tom’s name to honor him. You can donate online at https://thecrossroadsinc.org/giving/

Due to the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic and space limitations enforced by the cemetery, a private service will be held in Tom’s memory on April 10, 2021. For those who would like to remember him, please do something kind for someone else on this day. Condolences may be expressed at www.whitneymurphyfuneralhome.com

Condolences for the family of “GRAHAM, THOMAS “TOM” MICHAEL”

Condolence from Don Rodie on March 24th, 2021 6:04 pm

I have so many fond memories growing up with the Graham family; all of whom were such fun and loving people to be around. Our family life would never have been the same without Bill & Betsy, Scot, John & Tom in it. I remember when I was 6 years old, I had correctly guessed the gender of my sister who was born 3 months prior to Tom. So Betsy and Bill were most interested in knowing if I had an accurate forecast for them. I did and it was.

My deepest and heartfelt condolences…Love and hugs…

Condolence from Timothy P Burns on March 26th, 2021 6:03 am

Tom was a good friend and confidant and will be greatly missed by all that knew him. My sincere condolences to the Graham Family in this time of loss and grief.
Timothy P Burns

Condolence from Cathy Wylet on March 30th, 2021 9:19 am


I am so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. I worked with Tom at the YMCA in the summer of 1979. Can you please email me at wyletca@cox.net as I would like to share my Tom memories with you.

thank you! Cathy Wylet (Curtain)

Condolence from Joan (Gruler) Giannini on September 30th, 2021 6:54 am

I am so sorry to hear of Tom’s passing. I have some fond memories of us hanging out together in college. There was a place in my heart for him. May He Rest In Peace.

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