4800 E Indian School Rd
Phoenix, AZ 85018
PACIONI, PATRICIA ANN
Patricia Ann Pacioni, 75, of Phoenix, Arizona, died peacefully on February 15, 2015 following an almost two year battle with cancer, surrounded by her immediate family. Born August 6, 1939 in Rochester, New York, she is predeceased by her parents, Erma Joan Lemon (Decker) and Joseph Francis Leonardo of Phoenix, Arizona and her brother Lawrence John Leonardo. Pat, as she was known to her friends, attended Scottsdale High School, graduating in 1957. She continued her education at St. Joseph’s School of Nursing in Phoenix, Arizona graduating in 1960. Pat married Raymond B. Pacioni in 1960 after meeting him on a blind date. She worked as registered nurse at St. Joseph’s until 1962. Starting in 1965 through 1969 she worked as an operating room nurse at Doctor’s Hospital, eventually quitting in order to stay home with her children. She continued to work part time in various medical clinics in order to maintain her skills. Pat was known for her love of laughter. She loved traveling and entertaining. She was a great cook who enjoyed having her children and grandchildren to dinner on a weekly basis. Her many friends would describe her as gregarious, outgoing, delightful and fun. It was often said she could go into a phone booth alone and come out with ten best friends. Pat had a very creative streak. She could paint, draw, sculpt and decorate. She loved to spend hours in her garden. None of these activities came close to her support and love for her husband, children and grandchildren. Pat is survived by her husband Raymond B. Pacioni; daughter Jeannine Pacioni Nale; sons Joseph Raymond Pacioni and Ronald John Pacioni; five grandchildren Sophia Marie, Gianna Simone, Nicolas John, Dominic Justin and Gabriel Alexander; sisters Mary Jo Backus and Michelle Porter. Visitation will be held at Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home, 4800 E. Indian School Road, Phoenix, on Tuesday, February 24, 2015 from 5:00 – 8:00 pm, with a scripture service at 7:00 pm. Funeral Mass will be held at St. Thomas the Apostle Catholic Church, 2312 E. Campbell Avenue, Phoenix on Wednesday, February, 25, 2015, at 10:30 am.
I met Pat years ago through my dear friend Mary Jo Backus. Although I did not get to know her, I remember her as outgoing, kind, and fun to be around. My heart and love are with her family and all of you who knew her. She was, and is, undoubtedly a special person.
My wonderful sister-in-law, Pat was and always will be the bright light in our family. Her wonderful smile and laugh will remain forever in our hearts. When Ray brought her home to meet our parents over 50 years ago, the connection and love was immediate. We were blessed to have her in our lives for these years and know that she is no longer in pain. Please send healing prayers of comfort to my brother Ray and his family at this most difficult time.
I’m so sorry for your loss Pacioni family. Sending you all my love and prayers.
Wishing all the Pacioni’s love and strength during this difficult time. Remember Pat for the love and laughter she shared with all.
She was a powerful woman who allways knew what to say, everything that came out of her mouth was loving and kind. I love you grandma.
my grandmother was an extremely important person to me and to so many people she changed so many lives including mine and I will never forget her and she will always be in my heart I love you so much grandma
I am very sorry for your loss, Pat and your whole family are in our prayers.
Tellez Family
I first had the pleasure of meeting Pat in 1982. I was new to Phoenix and was lucky enough to be invited to play poker in a weekly home game which included Ray. Every week we would have a new host at their home. The first time I played at the Pacioni’s home is when I met Pat, she was busy preparing a feast for our “break” time from the game. What a great cook and hostess she was. I immediately felt at home and with friends, that is just the way if you are lucky enough to know a Pacioni. Over the years my wife and I were invited to attend many Pacioni family functions. Pat really knew how to make you feel at ease. We loved hearing about the early days in Phoenix, she was a great story teller. I can’t help but to think of the wedding that took place during the World Series in 2001. Pat was just as excited about the baseball game as the rest of guys, Pat was one of “the guys”, just much prettier then the rest of us.
Pat will be missed by all that knew her but I really feel sorry for those who never got the chance to know this wonderful lady, RIP Pat!
There are no words to convey the sadness that Harmon and I feel at the passing of Pat and how we all will miss her. To Ray, Ronnie and all the other members of her beloved family, we would like to say that there is now one more bright and shiny star in the firmament high above us. We will look to the heavens to send our greetings, and remember her forever as the loving and caring person she always was!
I had the pleasure of Pat’s friendship 38 + years she was one of the most wonderful,beautiful and caring friend, always having time to listen and just be there in the moment.I will miss you dear friend and remember “the great and fun” times we had..
Ray you and the family are in our prayers. Wishing you strength through this difficult time.
Ron
Blessings in abundance to your life, time to honor the legacy of your mother and the deep imprint left in your life. She is now at peace .
I wish peace and harmony for all your family.
Mirna Pineda-Acuna
We loved Pat and in particularly her sense of humor. She holds a special place in our hearts as well as the hearts of our mutual grandchildren.
We didn’t have the privilege of meeting Patricia but we know Ron who always spoke very highly of his Mom. Our hearts and condolences go out to the Pacioni family and friends of Patricia.
Joey & Josie
I don’t how to put into words feelings about my sister ,Pat she was more than a sister and a friend. She was also like a mom
and a mentor. Our age difference of 16 years made her able to tell me things about my family history and what went on in the Family before I was ever born. She was a constant resource , if I had a question regarding social events or family life. We vented our fears, anger, and frustrations to each other. We also shared all the happy events. We talked daily. Over the years, we became best friends and peers. The mutual respect we felt for each other is again beyond words. My heart is Is broken. Never will there be anyone to take her place. I love you, Pat, I hope you’re at peace and enjoying being with all of our previous family members who went to
heaven before you. And as we ended each conversation I say, “love you! ” Mary Jo
We will both miss Pat so very much. We remember all the years we have spent having many happy times and memories with her and Ray. Wishing you God’s blessings to help you all at this difficult Time.
My first job was in a medical practice where Pat worked as a nurse. First of all, she was a great nurse and I always remember her happiness and caring attitude. She was an inspiration to me at the beginning of my career! She hosted many office parties at her house, where all enjoyed her hospitality. Mary Jo and I are also friends. She kept my posted as to how Pat was doing.
My condolences to the entire family and blessings to you all.
Blessings to all of the Pacioni family. I can’t think of Pat without smiling.
My prayers are with you and your family. I will miss Pat. We met through Cleo Yocum , at Neiman Marcus. A very lovely lady, I will miss her.
What a fantastic lady and wonderful Aunt. So many great memories of party’s and family events that Pat hosted over the years. Always had and smile on her face and greated me with ” hi honey”! She will be missed but forever remembered. Love you Aunt Pat.
Pat was a very special lady. Pat always made me feel so welcome when I visited the family with Jeannine. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
I was blessed to meet Aunt Pat almost 10 years ago. She immediately took me into her home and heart. Pat was so warm, entertaining, affectionate and kind. Everyone loved to be around her and it was always so apparent that her family (immediate, extended and chosen) was her biggest source of pride and joy! I will forever be grateful that my daughter and I had the blessing of Aunt Pat in our lives. She will be missed beyond belief! We love you!
My sister in law, Pat welcomed me into the family, some 30 years ago, while I was dating her sister, Mary Jo. Pat was that very rare person that if you were lucky you met one or two in your entire lifetime. Warm, excepting, fun, and the perfect hostess. But in tough times she was a sister, a friend, and a mentor. I will miss her greatly , but I fear not for I am sure God has prepared a very special place in heaven for her. Bless you Pat, I love you , Rob
Aunt Pat was a wonderful, loving and incredibly welcoming person. Any time we were in town she made sure to make us feel part of the family and of course, to make sure we had enough to eat!
She will be missed.
Our beloved sister-in-law Pat, great friend & travel companion, to our extreme sadness & regret has left us after a long 2 year period of battling cancer. There were many great times & laughter with our many trips with her & Ray to Las vegas, San Diego, Skiing, cruises, & Hawaii. Pat was a very talented & social person, as a matter of fact as we observed her talking to complete strangers, we would conclude “we will see these people at Pat & Ray’s Christmas Eve party”. Pat we love you & will really miss you —- Arriverderci & via con Dio !!!!
Remember her smile…
May you find comfort in the loving memories you hold in your heart.
Our deepest sympathy,
Cathy & Eldon
our deepest condolence to the entire family! It hurts way too much to say anything more than Pat, I do and will miss you sooooo much my friend. Love you pal.
The Porter family meet the Pacioni and Leonardo families during our son, Craig Porter and Michelle Leonardo ‘s courtship and subsequent marriage in 1994. Pat and Ray were the classic host and hostess and it was special to be included in their parties. Pat showed a special interest in her sister Michelle and made us all feel we were part of that family.
We all have another angel in Heaven !!
It is difficult to imagine this world without Pat Pacioni. Her storytelling was a rare gift and she was a party everywhere she went. We love so many things about Pat…from her artistic way to her grand taste in literature to her fabulous culinary skills to the way she made you feel like you were the only person in the room. That wry sense of humor and contagious laugh. She was one in a million and will be missed. Ray and family, we hold you in our hearts and in our prayers.
My deepest condolence to the entire family. I was blessed to have know her for a brief moment in time. Love, Nathalie
My condolences to the family! I knew Pat from our time with the Childhelp Phoenix Chapter. She was a wonderful,
kind, and sweet woman, who always had a big smile for everyone. She will be sorely missed!
How can you express the loss of one so dear? Pat was my Aunt and since she died I have not been able to stop thinking about her and what an awesome person the world lost. The memory that keeps coming back to me is when I was 14-15 years old. My mom had died and my dad moved us back to Phoenix from Idaho. She tried so hard to be a support to me. She took me shopping and decorated my room with all kinds of girly things. It was wonderful. She always made herself available to her family and friends and would give it to you straight but with love so that the truth did not hurt too much. She had no problem letting you know when you were screwing up but she did it in such a loving way that there never were any hurt feelings or resentment. She remains a great role model to me and the shining example of what it is to be a awesome woman and all that entails. The hole she leaves behind is huge. She will be greatly missed.