Nyjeda Sanders, also known as Stoniee Rozay, 20 years of age, left this world unexpectedly and passed away on June 30th, 2019. She was born on August 13, 1998 in Phoenix, Arizona, grew up in the Phoenix area, and later attended Medford Central High in Oregon.
Jeda is the beloved daughter of Bobby Sanders and Christy Maddock, and also a loved granddaughter, sister, and friend. She is survived by her parents Bobby Sanders and Christy Maddock: her grandparents; Dennis and Carolyn Davis, Deborah Cassidy and Lonnie Dubois; and Donald Maddock: her brother; Quincy Maddock: and Bobby’s family; wife Tiffany and children; Haley (24), Bryan (22), Tianna (19), Alazy (15), Shaunna (13), Isiah (13), Noah (10), Neveah (10), Isacc (9), and Jordan (9): and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, and friends.
Jeda will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. She had a contagious smile that could light up the world. She was the definition of fun and silliness. She enjoyed being with her friends, laughing and telling gossip, and from the time she started talking it was widely known that she couldn’t keep a secret. She was funny, outgoing, and vivacious, and she was also a person fiercely loyal to her friends and family – didn’t always agree with them but she was loyal. She wanted nothing more than to have a wonderful life. When you think of Jeda, celebrate the good memories you have of her. Remember that life is fragile and short and should be lived to the fullest.
If she could tell us anything, it would be this:
I gotta tell you, this came as a total surprise to me, but apparently I have passed away. They told me it would happen one day, but that’s simply not something I was ready for, much less prepared to experience. Once again I didn’t get things my way! That’s the story of my life.
I loved art and fashion and enjoyed music and dancing. And you know, I have some good memories to take with me but I really wasn’t finished yet. I was proud when I graduated and I always loved fashion and modeling. I thought I could do that someday, that maybe it was more than just a dream – but dreams are always a good place to start.
This would probably be a good time to mend some fences. Mom would probably say I was horrible at keeping my room neat, actually she probably has a long list of normal things I wasn’t good at and I apologize for all of that. I apologize to my brother Quincy for whatever, who knows, there was probably a lot of whatever. That’s it, anyone else will have to get in line they said I had to keep this short.
I don’t even want to start talking about boyfriends and falling in love. Maybe I dodged a bullet there. But I knew love, the great love of family and friends; a long, deep, irreplaceable love that will go with me wherever my journey leads. I have many treasures, not lost but held forever in the heart.
I admit, I may not have always been the best at everything but you should see my participation trophy, it’s awesome. And if you don’t believe it, just ask me. Oh wait, I’m afraid it’s too late for questions. Sorry.
So I was born, I blinked; and it was over and I am thankful that I was baptized the summer before this happened. No, don’t worry about me-I’m in a better place now, No, no buildings named after me; no monuments erected in my honor. But I did have a chance to know and love each and every friend as well as my family members. How much more blessed can a person be.
So, in the end, remember…do your best, follow your path, and make something amazing out of your life. Oh, and never stop smiling. Of course, that will probably comfort some while antagonizing others, but you know me…it’s what I do.
So, I leave this place… please don’t cry because I’m gone; instead be happy that I was here. Okay, maybe you can cry a little bit. After all, I have passed away, but today I’m happy and I’m dancing –
probably naked.
Love you forever.
Jeda xoxoxo
Visitation will be held from 10:00 AM to 12:00 PM on Saturday, July 20, 2019 at Whitney and Murphy Funeral Home at 4800 E. Indian School Rd., Phoenix, Arizona.
Followed by Funeral Services from 12:00 PM to 2:00 PM.
Rose DeFer
Marty and I love you so much, Shorty. We cannot imagine your pain right now. You are in our prayers. We are here for you.
Amanda Carrera
I love you Jeda. You are my bestfriend, partner in crime, other half, ride or die, & my best bud I miss you like crazy. It hurt so bad that youre gone and as your funeral is approaching the reality of it all is sinking in. I dont want to believe that you’re gone, I keep texting you hoping you’re gonna reply. But I know you’re not going to and it breaks my heart. We have so many memories together from you getting your first little red janky car to us spending the summer days that turned into nights at the lake. Being with you is always a good time, your personality shines as soon as you walk into a room with your big beautiful smile. You know just what to say and do to make me happy and turn around my mood. Youve been with me through some of my darkest days and some of my proudest moments. You’re the only one I know who can make being boo legged cute , you stunted on every one with the way you walked. You held your head high and knew you were beautiful and strong. You left an impact on everyone whos ever met you. You have such an unforgettable personality. If I could only use three words to describe you they would be resilient, caring & loyal. You are only of the most stongest people I know, life will hit you with the hard stuff and you bounce right back like nothing ever happened. You are so caring and would give the shirt off your back to a stranger. Ive seen you walk up to a complete stranger and have a genuine conversation with them and then go and give them food because you saw they were hungry, even if it was the last of your money. I love you for that. You are so loyal, you will go to war for the people you love. No matter how many fights youve had with them if they called you at 3am needing something you would have their backs no matter what. I love you Jeda, always and forever. You are truly missed by so many. I promise you this babygirl, you will never be forgotten! You have left behind a great legacy and I will do everything I can to keep your memory alive!!
Jelly
Today I share the sadness of Nyjeda leaving us too soon. I will always remember her upbeat personality and the thousands of memories we created. I’m heart broken, but happy I got to be apart of such an amazing womans life. I’ll always be thankful that I got to call Jeda one of my best friends. My deepest condolences go out to her family, who I know through my years of friendship with Jeda will be there to comfort each other in this hard time. My heart is with you all.
Emily
Rest easy love you were such a big part of my family’s life you were always the light in a bad day you were taken so soon and I’m so sorry for that you had so much more life to be lived you I miss your smile and your laugh and your goofy personality you were another sister to me you were my family I love you Jeda Rest In Peace stonie
Toya sanders
My condolence goes out to my lil cousin’s whole immediate family as well as extended . To jeda I was just getting used to seeing you come around. Blighting up my house . With that goofy laugh and that damn fro. Talking loud and not saying nothing at the same time. I can say you did a lot while here on earth you touch a lot of people in many ways . I’m sad that I have to say good bye. But I Happy cuz I know your well taking care of where you going. I know I will see you again and give grandma grandpa and all our uncles a great big hug for me . Love you so much . Young feisty one
Rachel DeFer
Shorty.. you’ve been my road dogs since we was about 13 -14 years old. you’ve never ever let me down and you have always been there for you. My heart completely goes out to you during this time of loss. I will forever love you and I will forever be here for you. We had a great blessing of growing up together. And then our kids got to grow up together. I remember first meeting Jeda when she was about one or two years old and I was at a very rough place in my life. Jeda… I am so thankful to have you as part of my life. I remember a lot of different stages of you growing up. I think the most memorable is when we all live together and you and Davion used to “take our order” fixing us fake breakfast and bringing us coffee in the morning. You had the greatest Spirit.. the biggest smile.. and the most caring heart. I’m going to miss you. I’m going to miss everything about you. I’m even going to miss the times when you started getting into those preteens with the attitude… I’m going to miss finding you in our house … I’m going to miss you teaching us how to do the Superman dance. I’m going to miss your smile and your spirit. I will say you were one of the most beautifulest souls I’ve ever met. You grew up to be a wonderful young woman and you are so completely gorgeous. Although I’m so angry at God for taking you away from us I’m grateful that He gained someone so precious. I know that you are the prettiest most spirited angel up there. Please always watch over for your family….. We love you Jeda.
Sadiee
I love you jeda ! Through our ups and downs you were always such a beautiful soul. You understood me when it felt like no one else did. You are my little sister and I know you watching over us. Don’t worry ima watch after your mom like you always did. Ima miss you baby girl till we meet again
Cassandra
Little scrappy,
Today is the day we will lay you to rest and I still am trying to deny that you are gone. When Jelly first brought you home to meet us I just knew I would like you. From the moment you walked in until you left you just radiated happiness. With you smile your quick whit and never ending loudness you fit right in as one of my girls. As I watched you Amanda and Jelly grow I just loved you all so much. I was there to see some bad timees for you ladies as you navigated through high school. I know the last couple years I havent really seen you but you have always been in my heart. The impact you left and me and my family will never be forgotten. I love and miss you rest in peace Angel.
Chaz
I just found out my cousin died. Way too early I see. Not enough time never enough time. Sorry Cuz, I can’t help you, I can play with time not reverse it; my daughter wantded to come visit ,get to know and have a relationship with you. I apologize cuz you never did get to buy my G6 man you wanted that thing so bad. There is no a twinge o sorrow underline the laughter. You definitely would not want us to get caught by sorrows undertow but be a beacon of light. We love and miss you.