4800 E Indian School Rd
Phoenix, AZ 85018
SHRUM, BARBARA JEAN
Barbara Jean (née Avelar) Shrum, beloved Daughter, Sister, Cousin, Wife, Mother, Grandmother, and Friend, was called home to be with our Lord on December 8, 2022.
She was born on September 14, 1958, to Gilbert H. Avelar and Ernestine O. Olmos. She is preceded in death by her father, Gilbert, step-father Richard, Uncle Neto, Godson Adrian, Sister-in-Law Peggy, and many more beloved family members. She is survived by her mother, Ernestine; husband, Joseph; sons Gilbert (Nichol) and Eric; grandchildren Alexa, Elijah, and Michael; sister, Susan (Jose) Carreon, and many nieces and nephews.
Barbara began her life in Tucson, moving to Phoenix in her teenage years where she attended Alhambra High School and met her sweetheart of 44-years, Joe. Together, they had 2 sons, Gilbert and Eric, who were her pride and joy. This love extended to her grandchildren, who she absolutely adored and could not get enough of. She treasured her Facetime calls with her “Ladybug” (Alexa) and enjoyed giving her grandsons rides on her scooter.
Barbara loved the outdoors, whether it was camping up North, relaxing on a beach, playing Roulette in Laughlin, or sitting on a rock and taking in Sabino Canyon; this was her happy place, and it is how we envision she is enjoying her place in paradise.
Barbara enjoyed her life in all its stages. Even when her health would limit her, she still found a way to travel and check off her bucket list, most recently with a trip to Washington, D.C. It was rare for Barbara to miss an event. She loved her family near and far and appreciated the time she spent with each of them.
A Eulogy will be given at 10am, with a Funeral Mass to be celebrated at 10:30am on Saturday, December 17, 2022, at St. Mary’s Basilica, 231 N. 3rd Street, in Phoenix. Procession to her final resting place at St. Francis Catholic Cemetery, 2033 N. 48th Street, will follow. Arrangements have been entrusted to Whitney & Murphy Funeral Home, 4800 E. Indian School Rd., Phoenix. Condolences may be expressed at www.whitneymurphyfuneralhome.com.
Our sincerest condolences to all of our cousin Barbara’s family, friends, husband Joe, sons Gilbert (Nicole) & Eric & grandchildren. We are deeply saddened however we are comforted by all the memories, laughter, & love shared with our beloved cousin Barbara. Her visits to Apache Sky Casino will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Barbara was kind, caring, sweet, & always smiling despite any challenge she may have faced. She now soars high in the heavens, and joins her beloved family gone before her. Rest, dear sweet cousin, & know that you will not be forgotten! Cousin Gilbert Michael, Teresita, & Judas M. Olmos
Our sincerest condolences to auntie Tina & cousin Susie & family. We are deeply saddened however so blessed to have had our sweet cousin Barbara in our lives. Lots of childhood memories, her wedding, the birth of her children, and family gatherings over the years besides, the Olmos family reunion are only just a few moments that will forever last in our hearts. We send our love, peace, and strength to you all!
Gilbert Michael, Teresita & Judas M. Olmos
Sister, those who didn’t know us often wondered who are Sister and Sister. That’s the only names we knew for eachother. I will miss you every minute of everyday. I Love you My Sister XOXO’s always Sister
Mi Hermosa, Susie, I can’t even imagine the pain you must be feeling right now. Please know that I am here for you whenever you need me. I will continue praying for comfort for you and your family. I love you so much! All my heart and soul to you, Your Corazon Diana
I sit here, thinking about the memories you and I had together. I cherish everything you’ve done for me. It will never be the same without you, but I will make sure you are remembered as the mother who loved her family dearly, most notably her grandchildren. While your departure was sudden, we know you are in good health and dancing freely with my Uncle Neto, your father, who you missed so much, and the countless pets you grew fond of. I miss you, mom, but I know you are looking over your family now and will protect us from evil.
I love you.
Our thoughts and prayers go to all your family . She was a really special person and will always be forever in the hearts of all that knew her
Loving hugs to you all ♥️
I haven’t had you long enough ! I’m going to miss our talks. I love you Auntie, and I wish we would have had more time together. ❤️