Known best for his kindness and love of family and friends, Robert Blake Steckner, 24, of Phoenix, Arizona, passed away Friday, Sept. 24, 2021. Robert was born on March 27, 1997, to Bridget Blake and Matt Steckner. Robert spent his life in Arizona, graduating from Notre Dame Preparatory High School in 2015 and the University of Arizona in 2020, where he was a proud member of the Zeta Beta Tau fraternity. Most recently, Robert immensely enjoyed his work as a recruiter for CyberCoders. He excelled in finding new business and connecting with clients in a fantastic environment of amazing colleagues. Tall and athletic, Robert loved playing volleyball, basketball, baseball, and working out. He was a devoted fan of the Arizona Cardinals, Phoenix Suns, University of Arizona basketball and his fantasy football teams. Robert was blessed to have close and loving relationships with family members throughout his life and was a doting big brother to his adoring sister, Gia. He cared deeply for his beloved dogs Max, Addy, Frank, Hannah, and Lexi. They brought him great joy. Robert was a loyal, dedicated, and generous friend, open-minded and nonjudgmental. He was the light of his parents’ lives and a cherished sibling, grandson, nephew, and cousin. Robert was and will forever be loved dearly.
Robert is survived by his parents: Bridget and Joel Clark and Matt and Mari Jo Steckner; his sister: Gia Steckner; his grandparents: Patricia Blake, Nell and Col. John Clark, USAF (ret.); and aunts and uncles: Kelly and Scott Drablos, Colleen and James Edwards, Maureen and Dr. Daniel Wesche, Sheila and Thomas Brandt, Thomas and Jennifer Blake, Aileen and Thomas Tansor, Lynn and Michael Dean, and Susie and Chris Fiscus. Robert is also survived by cousins: Alana, Katie, Thomas, and Maeve Drablos; Blake, Reilly, and William Edwards; Samantha, Anna, Nicholas, Thomas, Maggie, Grace, Olivia, Nora, Kate, and Charlie Wesche; Michael, Madeline, and Robert Brandt; Quinn and Reilly Blake; Aidan, Patrick, and Claire Tansor; Matthew, Wilson, and Kiera Dean; and Cole and Brady Fiscus.
He is preceded in death by his grandparents: Robert and Elisabeth Steckner and grandfather: Thomas Blake. A Funeral Mass for Robert will be said at St. Joan of Arc Church, 3801 E. Greenway Road, Phoenix, AZ 85032, on Friday, October 1, 2021, at 11:00 A.M. Donations in Robert’s memory may be made to Society of St. Vincent de Paul, where he had previously volunteered, at 420 W. Watkins Road, Phoenix, AZ 85002. Condolences may be expressed at www.whitneymurphyfuneralhome.com
Lynn Klus
Love from both of us. You are in our prayers . Lynn and Chris
Chris Klus
Bridget and Joel
No words can express the sympathy I feel for you.
My heart goes out to you and yours. I will keep all of you in my prayers. Much sympathy and love.
Chris Klus
Aaron Frankel
Sending a big hug from Robert’s CyberCoders work family. We’re all feeling a huge hole in our hearts by this sudden loss.
We really enjoyed getting to provide some guidance and opportunity to such a wonderful young man. We’re sending our love to Robert’s family, friends and those impacted by his loss.
Tom and Kim Edwards
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Tom and I are sending you our love and heartfelt prayers. ❤️
Marie and Tom Clark
Bridget and Joel,
Marie and I lifting up our prayers with yours and the family. You have our deepest thoughts and condolences.
Love
Marie and Tom Clark
Paula McDermott
Oh Bridget and family. I am so so sorry. This obituary tells a story of a beautiful soul. Know that you will be in my prayers. Sending so much love.
Paula Reardon xoxoxo
Catherine Wyman
We are so sad to hear of this tragedy. Our hearts go out to his family – we are holding each of you in our prayers.
with deepest sympathy,
The Wymans
Katie Birkelo
Sending prayers for hope and healing to Roberts family.
When I interviewed Robert, I asked him about the person he admired most. He spoke of this person with such admiration and praise.
I’m hopeful he did his homework and shared his thoughts. Such kindness in his words.
Thankful, now and always for the time I shared with Robert
Laurie and Tom Weiskopf
Bridget and Joel,
We struggle with words to console because there really are none. You, Robert and your entire family have been and will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Laurie and Tom Weiskopf
Verde Family
Bridget and Joel,
We are deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.
Love,
Theresa and Rafael
Paul B Hart
So sad to hear of Robert’s sudden and tragic passing.
Our condolences to Bridget, Joel and Matt as well as all the family and friends he touched over the years.
You are all on our minds and in our hearts. Strength, Love, and Peace.
Janet and Paul
Cindrella Silvano-Thaper
Dearest Joel and Bridget,
Words cannot express the magnitude of your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
With deepest sympathy,
Cindrella
Jason Wood
Bridget and Joel,
We are heartbroken to hear this news. I remember playing baseball with Robert like it was yesterday. Every time I spoke with him, it always stood out how kind and respectful Robert was— and I loved seeing him light up when I joked with him. He had kind and thoughtful soul— one that was apparent from the moment I met him over 10 years ago.
Kristin and I are sending you all our love, and will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. We love you both!!
Jason and Kristin Wood
Lynn and Michael Dean
Dear Matt and Mari Jo and Bridget,
Robert was such a sweet, gentle soul. We are thankful to have had him as the “big” cousin to our children and we have fond memories of a recent Thanksgiving at the cabin with Robert shooting hoops with the boys and later with all of us playing the card game Werewolf. We are all grieving his loss but take comfort in knowing he is in the living arms of his grandparents in Heaven.
Rhonda Hefton
Bridget and Joel,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We are praying that you feel the Lord’s peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Much love,
Dick and Rhonda
Beth Enright
Bridget, Joel and the entire extended family,
I am so deeply and sincerely sorry for your loss. I want you to know that so many – more than you know – are holding you close to their heart, wishing you comfort and sending you prayers….
All my love,
Beth
RH
I am truly lost for words. Rob, this world is in your detriment. It was better with you in it.
To your family: I’m truly so sorry for your loss. When people told me the same, it made me angry. Now, I understand it’s the only thing they could say because nothing anyone says will take away the emptiness. With that being said, I was asked to remember every good time and love the memories shared. That made me mad, too, but it does help. Grief is a mess. I wish you all love and peace.
Wendy Broughton Hirsch
Dear Bridget & Joel – I have no words to offer that could possibly help but please know that we are praying for you during this very difficult time. Reading about Robert gave me a picture of the wonderful young man you raised. My condolences to you and your extended family.
Wendy Broughton Hirsch
David Hudiburg
We are so very sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and we will be praying with you all.
David & Lezlie Hudiburg
Lisa Habasinski
Bridget and Joel,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this very difficult and sad time. What a beautiful, caring, compassionate young man. Condolences and many hugs, Lisa Habasinski
Bob and Jamie Jennings
So deeply sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Hugs
Karen Handelman
Matt, Mari Jo, Gia and family,
We are sending you all so much love and holding you in our hearts. What a kind, gentle, sweet young man, just like his Dad. Gia, what a fun, loving, dedicated and sweet sister whom Robert adored. May his memory be a blessing. I hope the love and support of family and friends helps get you through. We are always here for you. We love you all so dearly.
Karen, Michael, Lila and Maya
George and Tamara Fiscus
Matt and Mari Jo,
May your memories of Robert and the love of family and friends surround you and give you strength and peace in the days ahead.
We are so sorry and wish there were words that could ease your pain.
With Love,
George and Tamara Fiscus
Michael Hrubes
Bridget and Joel:
You have our deepest sympathy and condolences, please know you are in our prayers.
Love, Mike and Kate Hrubes
Alyssa
I cannot imagine what you are all going through. Words cannot express my deep sadness for your loss. I’m sending you love and hugs!
Jeff & Dana Miller
Matt & Family,
We’re so sorry for your loss of Robert and no words will be able to describe how sad we are for you and your family. We love you immensely and our thoughts and prayers are all headed towards your way. He will be the best guardian angel you could ever ask for and his spirit will always be around you. God bless everyone in your family and God bless Robert.
All our love,
Jeff & Dana Miller
James Anderson
To the entire loving family, friends who Robert touched,
My deepest and profound sympathy. May the love of family and friends serve as the hands and hearts which lift you up now and forever.
God bless Robert and everyone who is touched by his gracious spirit.
James Anderson
Andreas & Sinja Hartleb
Bridget and Joel,
we are sending our heart felt condolences, caring thoughts and love from Germany. We are so very sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with Robert and with you!!
Your friends, Andreas & Sinja
Maria Wilcox
Dear Bridget and Joel,
You are in my prayers. May the love and support from family and friends help you in this very difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Maria Wilcox
Stephanie Caron
Bridget and Joel,
I cannot imagine what you and your family are experiencing at this time. We are all thinking of you at CCC and our in our prayers.
With deepest sympathy,
Stephanie Caron
Annie Hughes and Brian Heindl
Dear Bridget and Joel,
Brian and I are sending you our deepest condolences. Robert’s light shines through the words you shared and and our heart goes out to all of Robert’s family and friends. Please know that our thoughts are with you and we are sending love and strength in the days ahead.
With love,
Annie and Brian
Trenae Forman
Joel and Bridget,
My heart and prayers are with you. I pray the peace of God provides some comfort during this incredibly difficult time.
With deepest sympathy,
Trenae Forman
Gretchen and Athan Crist
Dear Bridget and Joel,
Athan and I extend our deepest sympathy to you during this most difficult time. We love the two of you and know how much you loved, cared, and supported Robert. There are no amount of words to express the pain you are going through. Our heart truly breaks for you and your family. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
With Love,
Gretchen and Athan
Krista
Bridget and Family,
There are no words to describe how sorry I am for your loss, my heart is heavy for all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and you loved ones- please don’t hesitate to lean on those that love you for additional strength right now.
Janell Holas
Dear Bridget and Joel,
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss. You are in my thoughts and in my heart. Sending you strength, and peace.
Carlos Alvirde
Dear Bridget and Joel,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you for God to give you the necessary strength to go through this painful time.
Sincerely,
Carlos.
Kari hubbard
Much love and sympathy for you Matt and your family.
Kari Hubbard
Lauri Levitt
My heart goes out to you and you family,
Lauri
Jacque moore
Hi
We are so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sam & Jacque Moore
Steve & Pat Arruda
Bridget & Joel,
Our deepest sympathies for you two. You might remember Pat & I met Robert at your home off of 7th St when he was 12 years old. We saw you at the Church on Friday but were unable to attend the burial or reception. Please take care as our prayers are with you.
Kathryn vidales
Matt , Mari Jo and Gia
I am so sorry, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Kathryn Vidales
Olga Knyazeva
Even I never had a chance to meet Robert, being a colleague of his parent Joel, I feel and share your pain from this loss… my sincere condolences…
Molly Herschede
Bridget, Joel, Matt, Mari Jo, Gian,
We are heartbroken for your loss of Robert. What a wonderful young man! Please know we are holding you all near to our hearts. May God, family and friends provide you strength and comfort.
ANA AUTHER
Dearest Bridget,
You have been steady on my mind. It’s been too long but I often think fondly of you and Joel. It’s impossible to imagine how you must be feeling. It breaks my heart to think of it. I’m so terribly sorry for your immense loss. To be denied the undoubtedly promising contribution that Robert would have made to the world is a loss for us all. Please know that I am with you and share in your sadness. May God watch over you all. Much love to you my friend.
Ana
Cory Robinson
Please accept our deepest sympathies for your loss. I hope you have many family members and friends around you to share support and happy memories.
Our condolences,
The Robinson Family
THOMAS ALFRED WILLIAMS
Merry Christmas Robert, we love you.