Scott David Trayer, born January 12, 1962 (Hammond, Indiana) – Died June 8, 2019 (Scottsdale, Arizona) – 57 years of age.
The youngest of five, he is survived by his sister Sue, his brother Harry, and his twin sisters Jill and Joy.
He is also survived by his wife of 30 years, Elizabeth Stuart Trayer; his children Richard Stuart Trayer, Lisa Mae Reynolds (Cory), and Jerome Scott Trayer; and his granddaughters Annabelle and Veronica. He is preceded by his parents, Harry and Mae Trayer and will be buried in the family plot alongside them near the family farm in Mercersberg, Pennsylvania.
Scott grew up in Bucks County, Pennsylvania. He was both a talented athlete and mathematician and attended Council Rock High School. Scott graduated from Indiana University of Pennsylvania with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Management with an emphasis in Finance. Scott met the love of his life, Elizabeth (Liz) when they worked at the Arizona Bank. Together they made many friendships, raised a beautiful family, and shared many memories. Scott made his career in finance as a banker and financial adviser . Many businesses were made better with his guidance and support. He spent many nights playing softball with friends and was an avid sports fan and spent years involved as coach, official, and/or supportive parent at countless youth sporting events. He encouraged the children to compete honorably and strive to excel in their talents. He frequently arranged outings with friends and family to attend various professional events and cultivated a spirit of healthy competition.
Friends knew him for his quick wit and dry sense of humor he never missed a moment to bring a smile and laughter to those around him. A kind and lighthearted soul, he was simultaneously a man of frugality and a man of generosity.
He enjoyed leisurely travel by taking road trips to neighboring states, across the country to visit family, and occasionally a trip across the border. He was especially fond of the beach and made a habit of taking his family to California and Mexico.
Scott became ill with Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma in the Fall of 2014, he fought courageously through 30 plus rounds of chemo and was the 2nd recipient to receive the CART-T Immuno Therapy here in Arizona’s Mayo Clinic.
He will be remembered as a reliable, fun friend; a husband who provided joy and stability; a father who instilled responsibility, good humor and character; an adoring grandfather who loved spending time with his granddaughters, a loving baby brother (Bado), cousin and uncle. He has left us too early and will be dearly missed.
Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, June 13, 2019 at 10:30 A.M. at Blessed Sacrament, 11300 N. 64th Street, Scottsdale.
Dave Petrik
Liz, Lori and I are so sad to hear the news of Scott’s passings. You and your family are in our hearts during this difficult time.
We are thinking of you and praying for you and your family. God bless.
Craig Kirchhoff
I am sorry sorry to hear of Scott’s passing. He is going to be dearly missed.
I had fond memories of him when I coached my daughters in PVGSL. One memory that stands out is, whenever I showed up to Roadrunner Park and walked up towards the backstop where he would already be calling a game. He would notice me out of the corner of his eye and in between pitches he would turn to me and say “Don’t even tell me what the score of the game is or who won! I have it recording at home.” He never missed a beat or a pitch.
During games we would always banter back and forth shooting one liners at each other as well.
I was happy to have known him and to have called him a friend.
David Lin
I’m sad to hear of Scott’s passing. I played many softball seasons with Scott and can always remember his inside out swing to right field. He frequently burned many outfielders who weren’t aware of his power. I also visited him countless times where he was my banker at BofA on Tatum and Bell. He will be missed. My sympathies to his family for their loss.
David Lin
Tim Klein
Heartbreaking news, Liz. May our Lord be with you and your wonderful family during this difficult time.
Bronwin Barilla and Family
Liz and family – Scott was truly one of the good ones and my heart is broken for your loss. He will always be a legend to the PVGSL community. No one I have ever met could bring so many smiles to so many faces. What a light he was and I pray for peace and comfort for all of you during this time. He loved you so!
Barbara Mohney
I’m so sorry to hear of Scott’s passing. It’s been along time since Arizona Bank days & I remember his sense of humor. He was too young. My sincere condolences to the family.
DIANE SYLVIA
So sorry to hear about Scott! Hope you and kids doing well in the knowledge that he no longer suffers. Will be thinking of you and sending prayers your way in the months ahead.
Lou DeLuco
Scott, keep swinging away. Glad we had the opportunity to play together.
John A. Guzman
I am sad to hear of Scott’s passing. He was such a kind and friendly man of whom I have great respect for. I coached PVGSL softball for 10 years and looked forward to those games that Scott officiated. He was so good with the girls, especially the young ones trying to learn this sport and build some self confidence! I enjoyed the teasing we did back and forth during those games. He will be missed and my prayers are with you.
Sue Lukenbll
Liz, I was so saddened to hear of Scott’s passing, Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayer. Scott has been on the prayer list at St. Patrick’s along with you and your family and Scott will be prayed for at the Masses at St. Patrick’s.
Please take care and may God bless you and your family. May you find strength in God and comfort in the caring thoughts of others.
Love,
Sue
May you find strength in God and comfort in the caring thoughts of others.
Sue Lukenbll
Liz, I was so saddened to hear of Scott’s passing, Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayer. Scott has been on the prayer list at St. Patrick’s along with you and your family and Scott will be prayed for at the Masses at St. Patrick’s.
Please take care and may God bless you and your family. May you find strength in God and comfort in the caring thoughts of others.
Love,
Sue
Ron Angelo
Remembering Scott on our men’s softball team. He was our best player. I batted behind him but could not outhit him. He was a great player and friend. Prayers for his family. RIP Scott.
Ellie Marlar & family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Scott touched our lives as an official for PJ baseball. He was always happy and encouraging. May God hold you all in his hands.
Don Dennis
Just heard of Scott’s passing, he was one of my favorites to coach. Deepest Sympathy.
Don Dennis – Scott’s Newtown Intermediate School teacher and coach
Joy Kinney
I just read Scott’s Obituary,today on my birthday.It was very well written.